Just got dumped

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uRloved

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What advice can you help with (just got dumped)?
 
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verysadgirl

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Don't give up. Maybe he wasn't the right person for you? Concentrate on your spiritual and intellectual development instead of looking for another man. Timing is very important.
 
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MissCris

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Toilet-paper his house.





I'm kidding, that's a terrible idea. DON'T TP his house.

I'm sorry you're hurting right now...I find that ice cream, keeping busy, prayer, and chocolate go a long way towards making me feel better when I've been hurt.
 
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LiJo

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What advice can you help with (just got dumped)?
I'm so very sorry that you're hurting right now. I know you don't want to hear this, but perhaps it's God's way of protecting you.
The best thing for you right now is to lean on God and your friends and family. Keep yourself occupied.

And welcome to CC!!
 
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If I just got dumped I'd go buy a new guitar. Lol
 
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Don't look at it as being dumped.. look at it as newfound freedom and a new beginning.
 
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Rosesrock

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New shoes.
 

Dino246

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Just got dumped? Hmmm... Proverbs 3:5-6. Psalm 139. John 3:16.

And, chocolate, a tear-jerker of a movie, and something hot and satisfying to drink. Or, cold and satisfying, if it's hot where you are.

Alternately, if action movies are more your style, something with enough explosions to leave you imagining the 'dumper' inadvertently caught in one. Along with some really spicy snacks, and a good beer (Proverbs 31:6-7). ;)

Welcome to CC, by the way!
 
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seriously rose...shoes? You're so predictable. Maybe she should aim a little higher...like....a gold necklace or a new car or something.
 
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If I just got dumped I'd go buy a new guitar. Lol
...get dumped and dump some cash into a new guitar.

That's what I call getting revenge!

Er, wait, I can't play the guitar.
 
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jennymae

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Toilet-paper his house.





I'm kidding, that's a terrible idea. DON'T TP his house.

I'm sorry you're hurting right now...I find that ice cream, keeping busy, prayer, and chocolate go a long way towards making me feel better when I've been hurt.
Rollin a house is ALWAYS a good idea. Heck, his car as well:p
 
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...get dumped and dump some cash into a new guitar.

That's what I call getting revenge!

Er, wait, I can't play the guitar.
the sad thing is the guitars I like aren't cheap.
 
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What advice can you help with (just got dumped)?
With such little information, not much.

-Cry. Allow yourself to feel hurt. Sharing with a trusted friend may help.

-Give yourself time to recover. How long it takes will depend on how long the relationship lasted and how close the two of you were.

-Use the experience as you move forward in your search. From your dating experience, you hopefully learned about your needs, what you have to offer, and the needs of a man. As you go forward, you should be able to use what you learned as a tool to filter out incompatible men. You probably can also start working on ways to improve you.

 

Demi777

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You can tape his picture to a dartboard and instantly become a master dart thrower... :rolleyes:

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...and women are?

(Actually, my gf is a bargain hunter & isn't demanding). Whew! :)
Well...when you put it like that I could have saved a whole lot of money and had a dozen or so real nice custom made....maple top (beautiful quilt tops no less)...with binding....top of the line bridges and frets....tuners and nut....hand made geetars. Lol
 
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Seriously....shoes? You ladies need a hobby.....like guitar....or speed knitting or something. I hear you can buy really high dollar knitting needles and yarn and stuff. Lol