(#6) "The older man will be more committed than the younger man"

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BeyondET

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"Ladies, please take note that a true Christian man who is a virgin will seek to marry in his twenties and you should be more suspicious of the man who is still single at 35 years and above."

Dear pete: Horse pucky. Nothing about me of which to be suspicious. I just never have bothered looking for a girl. You're saying because I'm 38 and single, I'm going to cheat on a girl if I do get married now?

And I notice you drew that line just a bit above your own age. (Wonder how your opinion will change if you reach 35 and are still single...)
Really huh I didn't know that if a person is single after 35 something is suspicious... What made you think of this hoax...
 

melita916

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Wat

My fiance is in his late 30s. Never married.

So.... i should be suspicious of him?

Gah.

Lol
 
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BeyondET

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Wat

My fiance is in his late 30s. Never married.

So.... i should be suspicious of him?

Gah.

Lol
Yes you should his a evil man who has not been able to marry before 35 years old... lol
 

Sonflower

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*facepalm*

that pretty much sums it all up.
 

Lenardzw

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"Ladies, please take note that a true Christian man who is a virgin will seek to marry in his twenties and you should be more suspicious of the man who is still single at 35 years and above."

Dear pete: Horse pucky. Nothing about me of which to be suspicious. I just never have bothered looking for a girl. You're saying because I'm 38 and single, I'm going to cheat on a girl if I do get married now?

And I notice you drew that line just a bit above your own age. (Wonder how your opinion will change if you reach 35 and are still single...)
I think if we hang around long enough we may just find out. With that mindset 35 may be ambitious.:rolleyes: i don't know what parallel universe Pete is getting his theories from (that's all they are). The conclusions he draws from his crazy generalizations are scary at best. so "horse pucky" is a fairly apt description of the OP of this thread.
 

Lenardzw

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Sorry guys. I just don't a thousand words right now:(


List of dating mistakes that should be avoided by the Christian woman
(#6) THE OLDER MAN WILL BE MORE COMMITTED THAN THE YOUNGER MAN

It has been discovered that some women believe that the older man is automatically better for them? they have this belief that younger men still want to "party" and therefore don't want commitment. They believe that older men are more mature and are ready for commitment. How can they be so wrong? They believe that maturity is directly proportional to age. I am 30 years old and I have approached so many women on online Christian sites who are 35 to 40 and I am not even allowed to email them because the women have blocked all men that are below their ages from contacting them. Congrats! You just blocked your true loves from contacting you. Just how hard is it for you to keep the door open for the younger man to prove himself? Why do some women feel humiliated of dating younger men? Why do you believe that the younger man only wants to party?

For your information, anyone can be anyone in that the older man who you believe is ready for a commitment may be the one who is promiscuous. If he wasn't promiscuous, why didn't he get married when he was in twenties or early thirties? He didn't, probably because he is one of those men that never wanted commitment so he waited untill the last possible moment when he was in his late thirties/early fourties to get married. He is only getting married in his late thirties/early fourties not because he is ready for a commitment but because all his friends are already married and he will continue his philandering whilst married. But yet, it is this type of promiscuous older man that some women believe is better for them just because he is old, how can they be so wrong? these same women turn down true Christian virgin men of 25,26,27,28 years old just because they are young.

Ladies, please take note that a true Christian man who is a virgin will seek to marry in his twenties and you should be more suspicious of the man who is still single at 35 years and above. Having said this, anyone can be anyone in that both the younger and older men can be good or bad. Just don't automatically reject the younger man because of his slightly younger age.

Ladies should note that they are supposed to seek a Christian marriage and a Christian marriage doesn't prioritize age instead it prioritizes the level of faith.Note that age doesn't matter, what matters is how well the husband and wife roles are played. And finally, maturity is not directly proportional to age so don't hesitate to date a younger man just because you believe in the false tradition that the man is the leader and therefore he should be older than you. Do not reject your true love just because of his younger age.
 

Fenner

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Gosh when I was dating I went for the guys who were older because they usually had money and would have a nice BMW to drive me to church in. I eventually settled for a guy who is only two years older than me and drove a Festiva when I met him. For those who've never heard of a Festiva it was Fords economy car that was a pretty close relative to the Yugo or the Le Car.
 

Angelsnow

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Hey Look....a NEW "OLDER" Man....a future boyfriend???....


 

Angelsnow

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Kinda what your getting ....with..an "OLDER MAN"

 

Dan58

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Gosh when I was dating I went for the guys who were older because they usually had money and would have a nice BMW to drive me to church in.
Older... Younger... Women don't care, they go for the guy with the cash. :)
 

maxwel

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List of dating mistakes that should be avoided by the Christian woman
(#6) THE OLDER MAN WILL BE MORE COMMITTED THAN THE YOUNGER MAN

It has been discovered that some women believe that the older man is automatically better for them? they have this belief that younger men still want to "party" and therefore don't want commitment. They believe that older men are more mature and are ready for commitment. How can they be so wrong? They believe that maturity is directly proportional to age. I am 30 years old and I have approached so many women on online Christian sites who are 35 to 40 and I am not even allowed to email them because the women have blocked all men that are below their ages from contacting them. Congrats! You just blocked your true loves from contacting you. Just how hard is it for you to keep the door open for the younger man to prove himself? Why do some women feel humiliated of dating younger men? Why do you believe that the younger man only wants to party?
Have you ever thought of just hitting on younger chicks?
 

JosephsDreams

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There is a saying. By around 45 to 50 years old you have the face you are.
 
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Ranger_One

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I believe you are right as long as both are Christians. ( My first marriage was 27 yrs & he past away) Three days ago I just found my second husband is leaving me after 10 years of being married. He has told me he loves someone else that's 31 that he new years ago in the Army. He is 60, & I am 65. I am so very sad & do not know how I will pay my bills. It is hard to write these words...
 
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pete13

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Gosh when I was dating I went for the guys who were older because they usually had money and would have a nice BMW to drive me to church in. I eventually settled for a guy who is only two years older than me and drove a Festiva when I met him. For those who've never heard of a Festiva it was Fords economy car that was a pretty close relative to the Yugo or the Le Car.
Looks like you were into the sugar daddies. I do have a rav4 though. You like Toyotas, right?
 

Dino246

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I believe you are right as long as both are Christians. ( My first marriage was 27 yrs & he past away) Three days ago I just found my second husband is leaving me after 10 years of being married. He has told me he loves someone else that's 31 that he new years ago in the Army. He is 60, & I am 65. I am so very sad & do not know how I will pay my bills. It is hard to write these words...
So sorry to hear that, Ranger_One. Welcome to CC! There are some good folks around here. I encourage you to stick around and connect. :)