About your past

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Each time I have tried to be open, forthcoming, and honest about my sexual past with partners, they have accused me of being secretive and a total liar.

I've been with very few women, and I've had very few sexual experiences. The few I did take part in were very vanilla, about as exciting as watching paint dry, and I spent more of my time as an adult avoiding sex than I ever did pursuing it. Even when I was living as a "secular humanist", I just didn't really see the appeal or the draw. I don't understand why that is so hard for women to believe.

I found it frustrating that even telling the complete truth that I was falsely accused of lying, so I stopped trying.