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well, to validate your question nadia, the guys asking me out aren't my age either. the last guy who asked me out recently was 12 years younger than me (though i have no idea if he knew our age difference was that significant) and that's pretty much the usual. i don't even bat an eye at 10 years anymore.
i think part of it is a numbers game, and i think possibly a lot of guys that age are looking for someone younger than them (such as the guys who didn't have kids or want more, now looking for suitable babymommas).
though in reality, i have no idea, for sure. i find it a bit confounding.
on the other extreme, i really don't get asked out much by guys a lot older than me, though. the "older guys" i'm around are the sr. citizens in my church, and they're all too popular to be bothering with me. : )
i think part of it is a numbers game, and i think possibly a lot of guys that age are looking for someone younger than them (such as the guys who didn't have kids or want more, now looking for suitable babymommas).
though in reality, i have no idea, for sure. i find it a bit confounding.
on the other extreme, i really don't get asked out much by guys a lot older than me, though. the "older guys" i'm around are the sr. citizens in my church, and they're all too popular to be bothering with me. : )
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I have read, yet no confirmed, that Japanese men are seeking wives outside Japan (Korea, Vietnam and around) to avoid those "local" problems you´ve mentioned.
I do know many Asian girls felt offended when North American men have thought "they´re are always seeking to get a visa or their green card" and, the facts, as I did my own search, many Asian girls/women like to stay close to their family bonds (mainly in Phlipines and around).
I don´t know if feminism has to do with those "social" tendencies, but I´m sure both, men and women, seek what each needs (that´s human and quite normal) the issue would be is some one is lying, using, abusing or just flirting, playing their games (no matter their religion, the things still the same).
I´m happy to learn from others.
Thanks!
I do know many Asian girls felt offended when North American men have thought "they´re are always seeking to get a visa or their green card" and, the facts, as I did my own search, many Asian girls/women like to stay close to their family bonds (mainly in Phlipines and around).
I don´t know if feminism has to do with those "social" tendencies, but I´m sure both, men and women, seek what each needs (that´s human and quite normal) the issue would be is some one is lying, using, abusing or just flirting, playing their games (no matter their religion, the things still the same).
I´m happy to learn from others.
Thanks!
R
Who knows it?
Some people need a painter who draws a rainbow with his colors, each day.
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Some people need a painter who draws a rainbow with his colors, each day.
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As as for revealing my age... I've been trying to figure out how to do that but haven't found an answer. Do I have to reveal my bday to reveal my age? Because if that's the case then I'd rather not. But I don't mind sharing that I am 25 years old. Whala!
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[h=3]Tobias's Prayer[/h]
And Tobias said: Lord God of our father, may the heavens and the earth, and the sea, and the fountains, and the rivers, and all thy creatures that are in them, bless thee. 8 Thou madest Adam of the slime of the earth, and gavest him Eve for a helper. 9 And now, Lord, thou knowest, that not for fleshly lust do I take my sister to wife, but only for the love of posterity, in which thy name may be blessed for ever and ever. 10 Sara also said: Have mercy on us, O Lord, have mercy on us, and let us grow old both together in health.
Did you actually make that? D: Cause I might have to steal it!
As as for revealing my age... I've been trying to figure out how to do that but haven't found an answer. Do I have to reveal my bday to reveal my age? Because if that's the case then I'd rather not. But I don't mind sharing that I am 25 years old. Whala!
As as for revealing my age... I've been trying to figure out how to do that but haven't found an answer. Do I have to reveal my bday to reveal my age? Because if that's the case then I'd rather not. But I don't mind sharing that I am 25 years old. Whala!
Another thing: I don´t like that age for me... I decided to stay as I am. :P
K
The first rule of any relationship is love and everything else queue right behind it. It is the pillar upon which everything in that relationship is built, age difference inclusive. However, the leading of the Spirit is key, He'll always order our steps in the right direction. We just need to learn to listen. Most importantly we must never get to the point of anxiety and desperation, it would becloud our judgment.