Age...Too Old or Too Young?

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Ugly

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#81
I'm 29 and a big kid (mindset, interests, not maturity). I don't think I could go older, since guys already mature more slowly than girls. Probably 22-29.
You just have to find a woman that's older who's immature for her age =D
I did it twice in my 20's, so go for it man!
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#82
So. There's possibly upwards of a 35 year difference between me and the Schwan's man.

I don't think it's going to work out.
Yeah...and then there's that pesky husband you have. Men,I tell ya'.LOL
 
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MissCris

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#83
Yeah...and then there's that pesky husband you have. Men,I tell ya'.LOL
I didn't like, forget that, you know :p

I told my husband about this whole thing this morning and he got all quiet for a minute and I thought he was gonna be upset. But then he said, "He probably makes good enough money to keep you supplied with your expensive coffee. Oh, and he's surrounded by ice cream all the time, so either way, you win."

...Yeesh, get back on topic, people!
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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#84
I didn't like, forget that, you know :p

I told my husband about this whole thing this morning and he got all quiet for a minute and I thought he was gonna be upset. But then he said, "He probably makes good enough money to keep you supplied with your expensive coffee. Oh, and he's surrounded by ice cream all the time, so either way, you win."

...Yeesh, get back on topic, people!
I'm not judging you,I'm just sayin'...if he's still available I might go after him.LOL We're closer in age & I'm single...oh,wait...it's the Schwan's "Man"...sigh...you wouldn't happen to know if there's a Schwan's "Woman" out there,would ya'?
 
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Ugly

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#85
I didn't like, forget that, you know :p

I told my husband about this whole thing this morning and he got all quiet for a minute and I thought he was gonna be upset. But then he said, "He probably makes good enough money to keep you supplied with your expensive coffee. Oh, and he's surrounded by ice cream all the time, so either way, you win."

...Yeesh, get back on topic, people!
You ARE the topic now
 
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BarlyGurl

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#87
I think it only really matters when you are very young... otherwise it is about common interests, shared values and compatibility.
 
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Jullianna

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#88
Red, in my corner of the state, you just described just about every post-collegiate man and woman. "Getting your priorities straight" here, apparently means get a job, make lots of babies, and have no time to take care of yourself AS SOON AS YOU CAN!!! Although in all fairness, considering how young many of them start, it's likely that making babies as soon as they do was likely not planned, and they are forced into throwing everything into work and taking care of their children that taking care of themselves goes right out the window. Ugh.

(Then again, I guess one should be surprised when 80% of the population believes that contraception is a sin. But we won't needlessly go there here.)
That is so .........sad :(
 

Loveneverfails

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#89
Hmm, this is a tough one, I'd say 10 years older is the max for me and I wouldn't want to think about younger now since I'm only 21... so for now I'd say a couple of years younger max... but when I'm older I could add a couple of more years to that. lol
I'm right there with you! 21 years old so I'll accept up to 10 years older but not much younger. I don't wanna babysit. ;)
 

zeroturbulence

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#90
I'm a vampire so this thread doesn't apply :p
 
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OceanGrl

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#91
I'm right there with you! 21 years old so I'll accept up to 10 years older but not much younger. I don't wanna babysit. ;)
Exactly, eww, that sounds so dirty to even think about younger. lol

zeroturbulence said:
I'm a vampire so this thread doesn't apply :p
Haha, nice!
 
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Tintin

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#92
No, Ugly. :p I don't want an immature girl. It's important that she's spiritually mature (not just a newbie to the faith). I also feel in general (except on CC) that most older girls are just too serious; they don't have the fun-loving personality I'm looking for. I would need someone reasonably quirky, who understands my own quirkiness.

You just have to find a woman that's older who's immature for her age =D
I did it twice in my 20's, so go for it man!
 
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Ugly

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#93
I didn't say totally immature, just immature for her age, so it puts her on your level. And i didn't say spiritually *poke, word in my mouth puter inner =P

But yeah, i have the same thing with the women i see around my age or older, often. Too uptight. Too serious. I'm a goober, i need a woman that can be a goober with me =P
 
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MissCris

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#94
...I'm eating French toast.

Completely irrelevant.

Carry on.
 
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#95
i never thought about what age range honestly.. but then again I don't actually go after anyone.
 
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BarlyGurl

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#99
No, Ugly. :p I don't want an immature girl. It's important that she's spiritually mature (not just a newbie to the faith). I also feel in general (except on CC) that most older girls are just too serious; they don't have the fun-loving personality I'm looking for. I would need someone reasonably quirky, who understands my own quirkiness.
Ya know Tintin... sometimes a woman isn't going to parade her quirkiness around for everyone to gawk at. For some... the quirkiness is a very personal element of self... so you will get "public-business face" until there is an element of trust and a more personal relationship between you.
 

Fenner

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When I was single my standards where very high, they had to have a pulse and be breathing. kidding;)