Alone on a Friday Night?

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isaria

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#21
If you are alone eeeeevery friday it may be horrid which you are not as you have children....

You could watch movie, have bath, listen to music if you can download it unlike me, take yourself to restaurant or movies, read book.....


If you are alone every week end and every week day like me then it is worse.

I am so dissapointed with the few people i knew.
I had cancer and they were not there for me instead laughed and were stealing from me.
Disapointed in "professionals" who stealing from me and being malicious.
Had death threates, bullying, isolation, spreading lies about me etc.
They were travelling world , living luxory and happiness on what stealing from me.

I was work day and night and still not assessed all my money or restrainingorder because they are educated in the crime.
Find them lieing in churches and being horrid.
I worked so hard.

No love, no care, dont ever get touched.
They isolated me .
I give love and care but got nothing back but jealousy of me and stealing from me.
 

AzureAfire

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Hmm...

Well, i've always been alone, since i started living in the city.

I'm pretty comfty living by myself, and i'm pretty much a homebody. I rarely go out with friends. I think the last time i went out to be with friends was 5 months ago? XD But i do go out to the mall every once in a while, to look up and buy some stuff (usually a book, or a new game), and eat out. If there's anything good to watch, i watch a movie.

The stress i get from work makes me want to stay indoors all the more XD i sort of dread every morning of going out to work, knowing i'll be going into a toxic environment, filled with bugs in the air, shouting, demanding, obnoxious people, unhealthy food choices, and lack of decent sleep XD when i'm at home, i'm away from all that toxic madness!!!

Nowadays, i content myself to playing video games, learning to play the guitar again, eating chocolate, ice cream, and sandwiches, watching my fave series online, and catching up on sleep XD that last has become such a luxury! And of course, i spend quiet time with Papa GOD :) i talk to HIM as often as i can. HE's been the one keeping me sane, and in a peaceful and joyful state. If i don't come to HIM, i'm sure to have a messy, struggle-filled day. That's why i need HIM all the time :) specially when the loneliness sets in, making me want to go to top of the building, carrying a huge megaphone, and shouting out to the rooftops: "I'm calling out to you, my crazy man that my awesome GOD has set apart for me!!! You better be on your way to me now, and you better get me soon...or else, you won't get to play coop games with me, eat my cooking, share my chocolate and ice cream, read my crazy poetry, and hear my songs for you :( you'll be very sorry!!!"

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Good thing there's CC to vent out some craziness as well XD
 
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Hi, Bones!

I don´t feel completely alone because I have me. If someone would said: "Have God as companion..." it never would be the same like having some I like or some I would be liked. Besides, I´m happy I know WHO are my friends and HOW I have been to deserve them and their feelings, but they have done their life and it COMPLETELY fair they have their life and private living (I seldom phone call them) Unless I am in love with an special one (I spent 5 months in Colombia and I did feel the need to phone call my childrens and, eventually, I call Joshua who is a the military service now).

By the way, since I have notice GIRLS/woman seem to feel alone on fridays: I see how they dressed up to go to work. Many expect to be taken out, to any place (I guess) and if they are alone (a very rare thing in my pagan culture) it could be because they disdained someone who wooed her or tried to get ilegal sexual access, and he was disqualified for any reason).

When I was young I never paid attention to these things, but now I see them as an outsider, as some one who doesn´t partake X-mas and a couple of conventional things I related to culture.

Loneliness is a emotional truth, even inside a club, your school, a church and the culture where you are in. I know i don´t belong to a couple of things and, when I tried to shared with my own children, even my nearest family, I know I don´t cope with the things they like, so I´d better stay where I am, no matter the day of the week or the season of the year: I am who I am (and probably no one else like me) Will I cry and pour tears for being who I am? No! I am the best and only I have.

Facebook? I use it, but don´t need it (just to check my children and hearing some news)
 
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Indiana
#25
I am always alone on fri night, and sat night and sun mon tuse wed thurs night
 
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Isaria!

Gold and pearls are below and beneath the OUTTER SURFACE...

When you knocked a door, do not expect it be open at first. Keep on knocking! and YOU are blaming others. Just see what you have said: "...I am so dissapointed with the few people i knew..."
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Hmmm... well, I have a friend who cannot stand being alone, so I don't get to spend much time alone anymore :p

For me, when I'm alone, I'll

Go for a walk if the weather is nice (or if it's summer and pouring rain :D )
Pray (well, I do that anyway)
Read a book
Browse CC
Write random stuff (stories, or whatever is in my head)
 
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Indiana
#29
being along is all i know. actually i been alone for so much of my life i dont like being around people at all.