Anyone else find Sunday afternoons depressing?

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seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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I have to confess--I guess I've never been close enough with anyone at church to have the feelings described by the OP. In the past, I HAVE felt that way because Sunday mornings was the only time I was around people on the weekends. But churches all have cliques and I was never a part of any of them, so I always sat alone and kept to myself.

There were also times I was going through something and would get so tired of hearing all the same cliched answers that I stopped telling anyone what was going on with me. *smile* Yes, I know this is incredibly cynical. But everyone is always talking about their kids and their families and all the activities the kids are involved in and I can't contribute to any of that, so I just smile and nod. If I can be perfectly honest, church is another obligation for me, just like work--it's just another thing I have to do.

I would love for that to change... one day. Hopefully.

Usually, my mind is so occupied with everything I have to get done before Monday that I'm actually in a rush to get home.

But I can certainly empathize with how the OP (and others) feel.
 
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Mitspa

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Sunday is always laundry day, and used to be visit mom day before she passed away ...little sad But its also a little sad because I have to go back to work in the morning :(
 
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LiJo

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#23
I actually enjoy Sunday afternoons, either I'm having lunch with friends or at home cooking for our Sunday family dinner, I used to dread Sundays because of work the next day, but now I don't have to be at the office until noon. :D
 
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IronSharpsIron

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Yeah, I definitely know what you mean. Especially if no one is home. When I lived with my parents we always had some of the youth hangout. When I moved out and even if my roommates were home, I did experience that melancholy feeling. Especially, when there were no sports on tv ha.

Now, I workout before church and make plans to have lunch with a group. I learned to be comfortable alone as well. That took a little time to get used to but it is very self-empowering
 
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JeniBean

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#26
Sundays...Oh how I miss my Sundays of Church, family meal and rest. I WISH and long for them. After Church it is nonstop laundry, clean house, mow the lawn, wash the cars and on and on and on.
 

Roh_Chris

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Sundays and Saturdays are the only days when my introvert and extrovert quotients are thoroughly satisfied. For instance, on Sunday, I spend close to 4-5 hours at church, socialising with a lot of people. By 2pm I am exhausted, so I come home and take a nap. By 6pm in the evening, I am good to go out again, so I step out for coffee or dinner. So, I do not find Sunday afternoons depressing.

I think it depends on how much of an extrovert or an introvert you are.