I have to confess--I guess I've never been close enough with anyone at church to have the feelings described by the OP. In the past, I HAVE felt that way because Sunday mornings was the only time I was around people on the weekends. But churches all have cliques and I was never a part of any of them, so I always sat alone and kept to myself.
There were also times I was going through something and would get so tired of hearing all the same cliched answers that I stopped telling anyone what was going on with me. *smile* Yes, I know this is incredibly cynical. But everyone is always talking about their kids and their families and all the activities the kids are involved in and I can't contribute to any of that, so I just smile and nod. If I can be perfectly honest, church is another obligation for me, just like work--it's just another thing I have to do.
I would love for that to change... one day. Hopefully.
Usually, my mind is so occupied with everything I have to get done before Monday that I'm actually in a rush to get home.
But I can certainly empathize with how the OP (and others) feel.
There were also times I was going through something and would get so tired of hearing all the same cliched answers that I stopped telling anyone what was going on with me. *smile* Yes, I know this is incredibly cynical. But everyone is always talking about their kids and their families and all the activities the kids are involved in and I can't contribute to any of that, so I just smile and nod. If I can be perfectly honest, church is another obligation for me, just like work--it's just another thing I have to do.
I would love for that to change... one day. Hopefully.
Usually, my mind is so occupied with everything I have to get done before Monday that I'm actually in a rush to get home.
But I can certainly empathize with how the OP (and others) feel.