Are you looking, or waiting for a miracle?

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GaryA

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Yes guys also go for confidence. But confidence is so hard to build in a hateful world. *sad face
It can be if both people involved are sincere and honest with themselves and each other. ;)

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HisHolly

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People don't know how to properly discern an opening either. Some just go with the aggressive bc they are the only ones making moves..
Some are overly antsy too and won't wait at all.

My experience when I went for the aggressive type
 
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I have never understood why... :confused:

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I was just thinking about that and it occurred to me that back in the cave man days, and in the animal kingdom, the aggressive male is usually the alpha (dominant) male.... so it actually makes sense. :p (females are always attracted to the alpha male)

This might actually explain why non-aggressive guys end up in the friendzone! :p
 
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Storrm99

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Yes so you will not waste time and not to prolong the agony. Better come forward. You might win or lose but the truth will set you free. Are you planning to confess your feelings to a guy that you like? Go for it! Its because of these passive guys that so many girls are still single. Normally guys pursue the girls but it does'nt really matter specially if the guy likes you too.
Totally agree. God ordained for men to be initiators. I've heard of a lot that are 'waiting.' Like dude waiting ain't gonna make it happen. God made you to be able to handle this!
Ok ok. It's a pet hate of mine.
But yeah it's all about truth and honesty.
Go get it boys!!! You never know!
 

melita916

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well, for me, i stopped looking simply cuz i wasn't interested in looking anymore. i was fine with it just being me.

then, someone told me about a guy. my thought? "eh it doesn't hurt to make a new friend." lol
 
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HisHolly

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I would now prefer to have learned things much earlier in life. But I didn't and am still in a process of riding myself of all the wrong thought patterns and propensity to assume the worst...
I don't want nor need anything else to apply myself to right now.. I love the idea but Im not ready
 

AsifinPassing

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Every time I think my miracle has arrived... it turns out to be just another trip to the friendzone...

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Poor Pikachu. I still love ya, buddy!



Y-Y BFFs!!


...anyway...on to the OP...um...which was *goes back to refresh memory*

Right right right! Waiting for a miracle...

Um...well, I thought about posting 'Waiting on the World to Change' by John Mayer as a response...
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oBIxScJ5rlY)

...and then I thought about posting this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJ8Sx6g4_HE

"It'd take a miracle, so that's what I'm praying for."


...and then I started to think about it more... Am I even waiting? I went out actively seeking...and over a dozen 'failed' relationships later... I figured that probably wasn't the best strategy.

So now, I'm on the tail end of giving up (as in...coming back from despair or being 'done with it' or however you want to phrase that), and just figuring I'll try being a better me just for the sake of being a better me (and more like God/'s plan for me...as best as I can know that).

...and if I get to have a lady more than friend to partner in that, cool, and if not, that's cool, too. I think I just want to learn to be content in whatever circumstance...like Paul talked about. It's easier said than done, but still...