I did not quite mean that like "just sitting on the front porch waiting for her to come walking down the street so I can meet her"...
I meant it in the sense that:
~ God knows the heart of every individual -- and, can "pair up" people better than anyone.
~ I have learned that trusting in God to bring my future wife and myself together will produce the best result...
AND --- with all of the "crazy crap" that is in the world today, you have to be very careful lest you end up dealing with something you really did not bargain for...
I already know that Satan likes to try to add misery to my life whenever and however he is able -- to try to make my life 'useless' and 'ineffective' -- so ---
Better to get God's help --- because of all of the things I may not be able to readily see...