I agree! That's the way Christians should be. They should care about the person's heart. The style has it's place, but the person's heart should always come first. Besides that, if this forum allowed us to edit our original posts, I would of made changes for him.
The bottom line is this: There are people in this world that suffer from mental instabilities. That said, I would do your best not to allow the weaknesses and insecurities of others to become your personal liability. This means that if a weak and insecure person abuses you even in a mild manner, as is the case here, don't let it bother you.
It is True, which is that just because a person is weak and insecure, this does not give them the right to cause a problem for another person. But the fact is, weak and insecure people, nearly by default, will in fact cause problems for others. We have to accept that weakness and insecurity may certainly cause another person to stumble. But, I would advise you to learn to look at yourself in such a way that results in a balanced sense of confidence. And what is confidence? It is the systematic, overarching way in which a person views themselves, the world (or universe), and all things within it. Confidence is merely a way of thinking or perceiving . . . nothing more and nothing less. So learn to change the way you think about yourself, which is that you are a normal, healthy, balanced individual and that the things that others say (or do) toward you no longer bother you.
When you become comfortable within your own skin, meaning that when you self-approve as a normal, healthy, balanced person, the things that others say (or do) toward you will become irrelevant. For, what matters is what you think about yourself. And greater still, what matters is what God thinks about you.
Romans 2:29 NLT - "No, a true Jew is one whose heart is right with God. And true circumcision is not merely obeying the letter of the law; rather, it is a change of heart produced by God's Spirit. And
a person with a changed heart seeks praise from God, not from people."
So, I would encourage you to no longer be concerned with how these people treat you but be concerned with what our Powerful, Almighty God thinks about you. I assure you of this: You do not need the approval of me, nor anyone else who frequents this forum. Believe in yourself as a Child of God and move onward from the evil thoughts of others and no longer allow them a place in your life, especially, in the way and manner in which you view yourself. Your identity is in Christ . . . not in people.
I believe in you.