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Here is another update. I have not watched porn for 16 days. This is a new record for me, but I can't say it has been pleasant. I have become more depressed and gloomy because I can't get my fix anymore. Porn used to be a way for me to escape grim reality and to feel good at the same time. Now, I don't have that crutch to fall back on.
The temptation has been strong, but I have not given in. But considering that my life is pretty much hell on earth, I notice that I am praying to God every day to put me out of my misery. I wish he could just stop my heart so I can end my agony.
Financial troubles, possibility of homelessness, health problems, poor self esteem, lack of intimacy, and my inability to do anything about them has caused me so much pain and suffering. At least the porn dulled that pain but I can't have a relapse again. I wish God would just give me the gift of death. That's the best thing he can possibly do for me. I have had so many suicidal thoughts after stopping porn, and also my OCD intrusive thoughts are getting worse.
The temptation has been strong, but I have not given in. But considering that my life is pretty much hell on earth, I notice that I am praying to God every day to put me out of my misery. I wish he could just stop my heart so I can end my agony.
Financial troubles, possibility of homelessness, health problems, poor self esteem, lack of intimacy, and my inability to do anything about them has caused me so much pain and suffering. At least the porn dulled that pain but I can't have a relapse again. I wish God would just give me the gift of death. That's the best thing he can possibly do for me. I have had so many suicidal thoughts after stopping porn, and also my OCD intrusive thoughts are getting worse.
its the same with any addiction..that's why its a problem..
"Financial troubles, possibility of homelessness, health problems, poor self esteem, lack of intimacy, and my inability to do anything about them has caused me so much pain and suffering" - your words.
i have gone through that,but God has a way of picking His child even from death point.i was picked up from death by God's spirit when i thought i couldn't move on further.The Love that i felt when i was brought back to life was enough for me to change..
i am saying this all to make it clear to you that God doesn't give up...
Trust in God.The initial struggle that you have trying to resist in long run will become a routine in the long run which your body will gradually pick up.Christianity is putting to death the works of flesh by God's Spirit(The Holy Spirit).
Thanks for sharing,...
Christian walk may not be comfortable in the beginning but it will be in the long run..because walking with Jesus is free of worries
Just make sure to stay away from people who tell condemning words and don't live accordingly.Be it here or in world,even in your church(like i mentioned in one of the above comment)i think in this thread itself you can find many..just look at their posts and see if they are sharing their life.That's how you find the crooks..