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MAGGIE

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HI

I am 34 was married about when I was 24 for 6 months. You guys you miss nothing only lots of stress and hurt. It is like they say the ones who is married wants to be free and the ones who is unmarried is sad because they are alone. One first have to find peace and hapiness in who you are in Jesus before you can think of being in a relationship. Being married would not make you happier than you already are.

Hope to chat with someone wants to make new friends who knows The Lord.

Cheers
 
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Kaylum

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cephas316 said:
Hey I am also 37; never married; no kids. The main problem I have is that have been unemployed for the last 4 years, so I don't really have a life :( You really need cash to go out anywhere in my area. BUT I remain optimistic that I will one day meet someone sent by God and that He will also help me get employed again!

I have learned much these past couple of years, so maybe my enforced layoff was meant to teach me a bit about life? Fun Quest: does a man's height make a difference? Being rather short (about 5ft5 or just below that), all taller men seem to have partners. Am I imagining things?

Being single can be advantageous - as I discovered when I was laid off just over 4 years ago- no family to worry about!

Anyway, HI to all you single people out there!

God Bless
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Hi Cephas, what are qualified as? I work for the City Of Tshwane in Pretoria its a local government. I am not promising anything, I am a director in a new subdivision we will be staffing soon. I am in Shared Services. would love to help please sms me on 0825773924 if you are still in South Africa, well if not will have you in my prayers.
 
olivetree32

olivetree32

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hi guys, i hope this helps. but i my self am a single woman, and i have been reminded to be busy about my Father business.
 
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KingDavid

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Hey I am 40 single guy from Alabama new to christian chat..............
 
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Rebecca

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Sib said:
I wander at times why it is so hard to find the right person in ones' life. What could be the main problem?
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Hi there. Rebecca here, 31. I also asked the same question at times. I wonder why it takes so long to find the right one. I have a stable job, I love God, and I think just at the right age to marry. I have been preparing myself-- spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally and physically-- to meet the right one since I graduated from College 8 years ago. But up to this day he hasn't come yet. I come up with two thoughts in the course of waiting-- First, I think it's really about God's timing-- that no matter how you prepare yourself, if it's still not yet the timing of God for you to get married, he won't still come. You couldn't still find the right one. But if the timing of God comes, then by all means, you will find the right one. He will bring the right one exactly where you are. And secondly, Is he ready to meet me? OR Are you ready when the right one for you comes?
 
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trs

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Hello. I just join this chat service to check out. Hello to everyone.
 
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imbliz

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Hello to everyone
 
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gracegrl74

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I find it hard to find a christian man who is not married....I desire something in a relationship that I have never had before because I was always impatient or thought they were someone they were not....if there could a relationship that is centered around God and with one who I can share my life with and have our lives grow closer because we both want God to be in the middle of everything we do and are...Someone to worship with would be amazing! I don't mind being single though because I am leaving my life partner up to the Lord this time...God bless you all....
 
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KingDavid

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gracegrl74 said:
I find it hard to find a christian man who is not married....I desire something in a relationship that I have never had before because I was always impatient or thought they were someone they were not....if there could a relationship that is centered around God and with one who I can share my life with and have our lives grow closer because we both want God to be in the middle of everything we do and are...Someone to worship with would be amazing! I don't mind being single though because I am leaving my life partner up to the Lord this time...God bless you all....
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You know Gracegrl I have that problem too I have met women who claim to be good christians and after a couple weeks in the relationship I start seeing their real fruits and I get so attached to women so fast that I can just leave. I was in prayers about my last GF that I didnt want to leave even though I felt the holy spirt directing me too. I just thought that I could help her get her relationship with god back in order and we would live happily ever after but the more I tried the worse things got and I just had to take the leap and put my faith in the Lord and now I am letting him direct me to the woman he would have me to spend the rest of my life with and I am praying for patience and faith! I will pray for you that you will be blessed by what you need.............God Bless
 
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gracegrl74

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Thank you for sharing your heart and thoughts with me on this matter. I understand what you are saying too...I do hope we both can give this to the Lord continually and trust Him to help us find our soul mates on earth and that He will be the Rock of our relationships for both of us and whoever is with us as well....hope we can chat again soon =)
 
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MAGGIE

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Hi

Yes I do agree with you that one should not only focus only on meeting somebody. I was once married because of loneliness, why do you think people get married? Do you really think that they truly love each other or could it only be that they just might only have a need for the other person? Could it be that people only marry cause of selfish reasons?

Magdalena
 
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midge

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My good friends have taken all the good men. I usually find a nice guy but all he wants is sex, its annoying. I am not going there so don't try to force me to. I just want to find a good man.
 
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NazariteNation

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olivetree32 said:
hi guys, i hope this helps. but i my self am a single woman, and i have been reminded to be busy about my Father business.
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Amen to that! As the old saying goes... "Idle hands are the devil's playthings."
 
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beta7

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ok so is this supposed to be the chat room? um thought it was supposed to be live. enlighten me someone please!
 
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Bornagainchristian

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Iam single too like to make friends around the world. Bornagainchristian .
 
daddycat

daddycat

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beta7 said:
ok so is this supposed to be the chat room? um thought it was supposed to be live. enlighten me someone please!
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Hi beta7 :)

Ok, here's how to get into live chat... You know how when you get the homepage on the screen and you haven't logged in yet, there is a chat window with ppl posting? Well that's where you wanna go, but you're a guest at that point and can't chat. To log in, look immediately to the right of the chat window. Enter your screen name and password and hit enter. That will take you to the Forums homepage. At the top of the page, right under the DONATE box, there are three drop down menus and a CHAT NOW button. Select the appropriate items from the three menus and hit the CHAT NOW button. Voila... you're in chat.

Hope that helps...
Daddycat
 
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N-Lily

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Hello! I am single 32 y.o christian girl from Russia, never married, no kids. I pray about my own future family and will enjoy to do it with you, if you need too. Will be glad to speak english very well and teach russian with you. God bless you, dearest one for me from God. Feel free chat with me and I nvite to be friend and future husband ONLY christians!
Be bless!! Love and wait you!
Nat
 
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Hethr

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I have a question for the ones who are really and truly content. How do you get that way? I'm 36 and never married and have rarely even dated as an adult. I'm so tired of it. I'm not even talking about marriage. I think at least for now I'd be content with a really good male friend. I'm tired of being alone. I'm tired of having nowhere to go, or not wanting to go somewhere alone. I don't get asked out. But I admit I am picky even if that were to happen I will only go out with Christians. It's a safety thing as well as a requirement my mate would have to have.
So back to my question. How can one become happy being so alone?
 
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freenow

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just turned 41 and been single for 2 years now. Can be very hard at times, raising kids and being alone.... alot of young singles worrying about being alone. You guys have plenty of time , relax and enjoy the life God has given you. Guess thats good advice for us older ones..
 
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RayOfLight1978

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I am 31 years old from Canada. I love the outdoors.. fishing, camping, boating. God is so awesome and I am so blessed. Just want to share that with someone else.
 
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