I have a friend who briefly went on match.com and she listed herself as a Christian and found mostly non-Christian men contacting her, rarely having a Christian man write to her. She said that from her experience there was a certain "type" of Christian man on this site. Most of them had incredibly detailed profiles and were highly goal oriented and expected the same from the women they wish to date. The general attitude she got was if you haven't climbed Mt Vesuvius, taught children in a third world country to read and write, have the disposition of Mother Teresa and the body of Barbie then don't bother trying to find a Christian man on this site. Apparently shallowness isn't beneath even the most Christianly of us.
Very good you said that!
No wonder non-Christian dared to contact a few, though those who belong to the "secret" christianity indulged in dating whomever dares to come closer.
While I was in NETLOG, I tried to "accurately" say who I thought I was. In the begining many approached to me. I personally met several in my own country and, of course, that was bound to free sex, not to an
enduring commitment, so I desided to make it clear I wanted NOTHING with pagans or unbelivers... Once I did it, I received less visits and, because of
my writings against cheating or things that are "normal" in the world we scaped, I became more unpopular,
less liked and, in a nutshell, I was kicked off.
Those who don´t mentioned their belilefs od concerns are greatly sought. If I had a sexy picture of me I received more visit, particularly wearing shorts showing my nude chest. So, believed or not, those sites works with the same teory of WINDOW SHOPPING, as a TV show and, believed or not, many tend to backslide at matchmaking.
