GUYS ONLY – I TRUST MY LADY COMPLETELY Obviously there are different levels of trust and as a relationship develops, the level of trust should naturally increase with it. Simply put, if I can't trust her I'm not with her. As a result, I have no problem with my lady kidding around with other guys.
GUYS ONLY – I’M SMART ENOUGH NOT TO FALL FOR FEMININE WILES This is a loaded subject. I think most guys would like to think we're smart enough, but probably a lot of us have fallen occasionally.
GUYS ONLY – I DON’T RESPECT WOMEN WHO FIGHT OVER MEN I really don't respect a woman who fights over men. In my opinion its a sign of insecurity and emotional immaturity. If you have to fight to get him, most likely you're gonna have to keep fighting to keep him.
GUYS ONLY – I’M NOT THE JEALOUS TYPE I'm not the jealous type at all, in my opinion jealousy is a sign of a lack of trust.
GUYS ONLY – I WANT TO LEAD A WOMAN, NOT CONTROL HER If I begin to develop the feelings of needing to keep my lady under control, I've found it's because of maturity issues on her end which is my cue to exit the relationship. Godly leadership is my duty as a man, playing daddy to someone other than a child of mine is not.
GUYS ONLY – I WON’T COMPETE FOR A WOMAN I have to say context plays a big part here. If it's a matter of I'm interested and some other guy is also I have no problem with pursuing and letting her decide. However if it's obvious that she prefers the other guy or she's playing us off against each other for the attention I'm done.
GUYS ONLY – AGGRESSIVE WOMEN ARE A TURN OFF Honestly I have no problem with a woman that discreetly shows interest in a man, however a woman that chases men is a big time turn off. To me it's another warning sign of emotional immaturity.
GUYS ONLY – I WILL GO AFTER WHAT I WANT In my younger years I suffered greatly with self confidence, but fortunately I've grown a lot since then. I am still cautious, but am willing to put myself out there now. I've figured out that a truly great woman isn't going to just fall into my lap one day without effort and risk on my part. I think I really fall in the midland between "going after what I want" and being "not very aggressive" because I'm willing to put myself out there, but at the same time don't want to give off the impression that I'm stalking or hanging on a woman.
GUYS ONLY – I DON’T WANT TO SETTLE FOR BEING A WOMAN’S 2ND CHOICE Once again context plays a part here. At my age obviously most women will have had more than one "first choice" come and go either due to death, divorce, or just failed relationships. By all means I have to be her first choice here and now, not her consolation prize because someone better (in her eyes) just rejected her, but once she's had time to heal from that it's different story.
GUYS ONLY - I DON'T LIKE IT IF I FEEL A WOMAN IS PUSHING ME INTO SOMETHING I definitely don't like feeling like a woman is pushing me into something. It's one thing for a woman to bring up a suggestion or to challenge me to better myself, but nagging and pushing will burn the bridges fast.
GUYS ONLY – I’M SMART ENOUGH NOT TO FALL FOR FEMININE WILES This is a loaded subject. I think most guys would like to think we're smart enough, but probably a lot of us have fallen occasionally.
GUYS ONLY – I DON’T RESPECT WOMEN WHO FIGHT OVER MEN I really don't respect a woman who fights over men. In my opinion its a sign of insecurity and emotional immaturity. If you have to fight to get him, most likely you're gonna have to keep fighting to keep him.
GUYS ONLY – I’M NOT THE JEALOUS TYPE I'm not the jealous type at all, in my opinion jealousy is a sign of a lack of trust.
GUYS ONLY – I WANT TO LEAD A WOMAN, NOT CONTROL HER If I begin to develop the feelings of needing to keep my lady under control, I've found it's because of maturity issues on her end which is my cue to exit the relationship. Godly leadership is my duty as a man, playing daddy to someone other than a child of mine is not.
GUYS ONLY – I WON’T COMPETE FOR A WOMAN I have to say context plays a big part here. If it's a matter of I'm interested and some other guy is also I have no problem with pursuing and letting her decide. However if it's obvious that she prefers the other guy or she's playing us off against each other for the attention I'm done.
GUYS ONLY – AGGRESSIVE WOMEN ARE A TURN OFF Honestly I have no problem with a woman that discreetly shows interest in a man, however a woman that chases men is a big time turn off. To me it's another warning sign of emotional immaturity.
GUYS ONLY – I WILL GO AFTER WHAT I WANT In my younger years I suffered greatly with self confidence, but fortunately I've grown a lot since then. I am still cautious, but am willing to put myself out there now. I've figured out that a truly great woman isn't going to just fall into my lap one day without effort and risk on my part. I think I really fall in the midland between "going after what I want" and being "not very aggressive" because I'm willing to put myself out there, but at the same time don't want to give off the impression that I'm stalking or hanging on a woman.
GUYS ONLY – I DON’T WANT TO SETTLE FOR BEING A WOMAN’S 2ND CHOICE Once again context plays a part here. At my age obviously most women will have had more than one "first choice" come and go either due to death, divorce, or just failed relationships. By all means I have to be her first choice here and now, not her consolation prize because someone better (in her eyes) just rejected her, but once she's had time to heal from that it's different story.
GUYS ONLY - I DON'T LIKE IT IF I FEEL A WOMAN IS PUSHING ME INTO SOMETHING I definitely don't like feeling like a woman is pushing me into something. It's one thing for a woman to bring up a suggestion or to challenge me to better myself, but nagging and pushing will burn the bridges fast.
