Whats the deal with these singles areas on CC? Far as I know this is not a dating site, so whats the problem? Maybe we should get a Married forum as well...making sure theres no exchange of words between married people and single people. Nobody has yet told me that having a conversation with a person who is single is an abomination in BDF, so why is it a problem in singles forum? Is there a hidden dating agenda endangering married people in there? A few hours back I was visiting the singles chat, and I was literally (yes, literally) laughed out of the chat room due to the fact that I am married. What is the problem? Is the single forum the CC freemasonry?
The last community I left there was a big schism some years back, due, in part, because people who had been single and part of the site for a long time and then got married were not happy that they couldn't chat with their friends anymore in the single's area. Some of the senior staff at that time, for whatever reason, felt it was best to create this rule and the division. I'm really not sure as to the exact reasons why, can only speculate. But, as a result, many people actually did leave and joined other forum(s). That I do know, because there was a thread on it (who knows if it still exists with all the editing that goes on there) where people were voicing their anger over it.
As for marrieds in Singles (here), it doesn't bother me as long as the info is disclosed. Like I said, I don't want some jealous boyfriend or husband jumping down my back because he's irked that I'm chatting to his significant other and I didn't even know.
That chatting doesn't have to involve any agenda, it just can perceived that way by significant others.
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