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I don't want to derail Oncefallen's thread, so I'm making a new one.
Do you think defining relationships is important? Is it important to say things like "we're just friends", "we're just getting to know one another", "we're dating", etc.? Do you think this helps avoid hurting people or misunderstandings?
Have you ever had someone get upset with you because they thought a relationship was more serious, but they never bothered to tell you this?
Have you ever had someone pay an extreme amount of attention to you that made you think it was more than friendship and all of the sudden it was nothing with no explanation at all?
Have you ever had a another woman/man get upset with you for behaving the same way you always had with a friend who didn't bother to mention the other woman/man was more than just a friend?
I have even had women nearly challenge me to a duel at times just for saying "hi" to an old friend.
Seems like these awkward moments could be prevented. What do you think? What's wrong with being honest about feelings so these things happen as infrequently as possible?
If you are interested in someone, why not say so? If you just want to be friends, why not say so?
Do you think defining relationships is important? Is it important to say things like "we're just friends", "we're just getting to know one another", "we're dating", etc.? Do you think this helps avoid hurting people or misunderstandings?
Have you ever had someone get upset with you because they thought a relationship was more serious, but they never bothered to tell you this?
Have you ever had someone pay an extreme amount of attention to you that made you think it was more than friendship and all of the sudden it was nothing with no explanation at all?
Have you ever had a another woman/man get upset with you for behaving the same way you always had with a friend who didn't bother to mention the other woman/man was more than just a friend?
I have even had women nearly challenge me to a duel at times just for saying "hi" to an old friend.
Seems like these awkward moments could be prevented. What do you think? What's wrong with being honest about feelings so these things happen as infrequently as possible?
If you are interested in someone, why not say so? If you just want to be friends, why not say so?