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coby said:
Take for instance Nu2see, who got banned. Some thought he was creepy. All the demands he had was that it must breathe. I'd have stalked him straight away if I lived in the States LOL.
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I remember nu2see by name, but never really got to know him, did not remember that, but indeed the "anyone with a pulse" mentality is typical for the men sadly these days. Stay far from those men. A real man even if he's meek or the world casts all sorts of false titles upon him, he wants love, not just anybody. Lol that's why we wait so patiently, or at least I always thought that was rather the point.

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That doesn't really sound loving and forgiving tbh and crostweed is smart enough to not go for a creep.
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Aye lady crosstweed is very smart that's why I said as I did. She will be smart enough to understand in time. Indeed it's not a very loving verse, the women of today don't actually love the men that would actually love them. Therefore, let the prophecy Paul spake come to pass, let them get men that will not love them which is exactly what they want, exactly what they deserve, amen.
 
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Don't be offended just because it's true. Just be loved and learn to love and maybe come to greater understanding. Plenty of eligible Christian guys. I know a lot of people that say they're Christians, or on the topic of singles and dating, that say they want a Christian man/woman, but they're really like chaff blown in the wind.

Lol and so I am right. Many men will love you for your strength, but the Christian man will love you for your fragility.

Don't be offended that you are a delicate flower lady crosstweed.
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The problem is, some, but hardly all, of what you have said is true. Something tells me it's your approach/attitude to women and not the women themselves that has caused your complications...

I'm not seriously interested in any guys at this point in my life right now, for various and good reasons.

Nooo... You're still wrong, so I'll repeat it for you - again. My Christian man (in the event I get one) is going to love me for who I am. Both strengths and delicate spots. Anybody who tries to force me into either mold - Amazon warrior or delicate flower - is going to be in for a surprise and more than a hint of disillusionment.

Lol and no thanks on the same to you snark, lol I'm not interested in finding a Christian man and God all ready knows that :p lol.
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Eh... you urged me to walk closely with God and I said the same to you... I did not urge you to find a good, Christian man.
 
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crosstweed said:
The problem is, some, but hardly all, of what you have said is true. Something tells me it's your approach/attitude to women and not the women themselves that has caused your complications...

I'm not seriously interested in any guys at this point in my life right now, for various and good reasons.

Nooo... You're still wrong, so I'll repeat it for you - again. My Christian man (in the event I get one) is going to love me for who I am. Both strengths and delicate spots. Anybody who tries to force me into either mold - Amazon warrior or delicate flower - is going to be in for a surprise and more than a hint of disillusionment.


Eh... you urged me to walk closely with God and I said the same to you... I did not urge you to find a good, Christian man.
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Lol I like your sharp directness and honesty lady crosstweed. Honesty is a rare trait in women today, even those that call themselves Christian.

I'm not really that complicated though, all one has to do is ask and I answer. I'm a pretty open book I don't hide my heart.

Lol also I ain't saying you gotta go get married tomorrow lady crosstweed lol, just reconsider maybe your stance on some of the men out there.

Lol I'm still right then. You're gonna be loved for your strength by men whether they're Christian or not. The difference is the Christian man will love your weaknesses too. Lol no one has forced you into any mold but yourself. Don't be afraid to open yourself up and let a good man get to know you.

Lol also just a little jest lol, thank you for the compliment.
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
The few eligible Christian guys are still there waiting patiently. I guess the Christian women just don't notice, or either don't want a Christian guy.
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Can't you participate in a humourous thread in the right spirit, for crying out loud? There was no need for you to bring in that statement and then to make a sweeping generalization of all Christian women.

Oh, and one more thing, women don't find a guy who complains too much to be attractive.
 
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This is many of your so-called Christian women. Don't be like them lady crosstweed, you're too funny and smart.

2 Timothy 3:6

[SUP]6 [/SUP]For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
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Hmmmmm......... Laden with sins... led away by divers lusts... Newflash: not a description of a Christian woman.

Be loved instead and maybe reconsider some Christian guys.
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When I'm good and ready. But if you think I'm reconsidering the desperate ones, you are wrong. All guys I have met who displayed symptoms of desperation were seriously emotionally immature.
Just because they're nice and polite and seem desperate in the eyes of the world these women really should not mock them considering how these women really are. That's how the stupid women end up the way they do. Oh well nothing can be done about it, they are prideful and think they are so strong and want to be so misunderstood. Therefore let them be a prey for the men they do want, let them get exactly what they want, exactly what they deserve.
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Bingo. Mystery solved. (Not that there was really a mystery about it, but hey, I like saying that phrase. Just call me Velma.)

These ungrateful women = unworthy of the love of these these desperate men who throw themselves at their feet in puddles are offering. I get it now.

News flash: women don't like men (and men don't like women, either) who act desperate because, as I've said in a previous post on the subject, desperation is usually symptomatic of emotional immaturity or outright emotional unhealthiness.

News flash #2: Some women are posers, pretending to be strong. On the other hand, some women are in fact very strong, much stronger than you are in some ways, and would of course be offended that you would try to make them into some delicate flower that they are not. I don't blame them for not being impressed with such a mentality.

News flash #3: Reign in and deal with your bitterness. (It's showing very obviously, in case you couldn't tell.)
 
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Can't you participate in a humourous thread in the right spirit, for crying out loud? There was no need for you to bring in that statement and then to make a sweeping generalization of all Christian women.

Oh, and one more thing, women don't find a guy who complains too much to be attractive.
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Lol this is humor to some people? No wonder women of this age are not attracted to Christian men then and say such terrible things about them.

2 Timothy 3 prophecy so correct, let them get what they want then. Let them get what they deserve then, amen.
 
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Roh_Chris said:
Can't you participate in a humourous thread in the right spirit, for crying out loud? There was no need for you to bring in that statement and then to make a sweeping generalization of all Christian women.

Oh, and one more thing, women don't find a guy who complains too much to be attractive.
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This. ^^^^
 
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I've definitely reached level 7! **da tede da!**

...but then maybe decided it would be better to stop leveling/grinding, because I really don't ever want to make it to level 8... =\

So, naturally, the game started becoming redundant, and I decided to AntiLevel! It's where you repeat each process so many times that you actually start to become worse at it instead of better, and thus reach *unlevel-progression*! I've regressed to about some grey area between level 3-5 where you can definitely get a date and are open to the possibility, but aren't really looking/haven't found the right fit.
 
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crosstweed said:
Hmmmmm......... Laden with sins... led away by divers lusts... Newflash: not a description of a Christian woman.
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Aye true, then it is not good for many of the women of this age.

When I'm good and ready. But if you think I'm reconsidering the desperate ones, you are wrong. All guys I have met who displayed symptoms of desperation were seriously emotionally immature.
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Lol most these women ain't exactly mature themselves. See your first sentence lol.

Bingo. Mystery solved. (Not that there was really a mystery about it, but hey, I like saying that phrase. Just call me Velma.)

These ungrateful women = unworthy of the love of these these desperate men who throw themselves at their feet in puddles are offering. I get it now.
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Lol Jinkies, you're understanding quickly Velma. That's why the good women should be more open to the good men and the good men to the good women.


News flash: women don't like men (and men don't like women, either) who act desperate because, as I've said in a previous post on the subject, desperation is usually symptomatic of emotional immaturity or outright emotional unhealthiness.
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Yes women don't like a meek man, they consider him immature because they themselves are immature.

News flash #2: Some women are posers, pretending to be strong. On the other hand, some women are in fact very strong, much stronger than you are in some ways, and would of course be offended that you would try to make them into some delicate flower that they are not. I don't blame them for not being impressed with such a mentality.
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Aye many strong women. Do you not know the tender flowers have strong roots? Lol sorta women that aren't impressed by that mentality are the same that are the posers. Therefore let them pose and be carried off by the men spoken of in 2 Timothy 3 that they deserve.

News flash #3: Reign in and deal with your bitterness. (It's showing very obviously, in case you couldn't tell.)
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Lol I don't think it's me that's bitter from the sound of it. They say there's a lack of ineligible single guys. Here we are. Then they tell us why we're crap. Okay, so no need to be bitter, they are the poser women as you put it lol. Let them be carried off like the prophesy foretold therefore.
 
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AsifinPassing said:
I've definitely reached level 7! **da tede da!**

...but then maybe decided it would be better to stop leveling/grinding, because I really don't ever want to make it to level 8... =\

So, naturally, the game started becoming redundant, and I decided to AntiLevel! It's where you repeat each process so many times that you actually start to become worse at it instead of better, and thus reach *unlevel-progression*! I've regressed to about some grey area between level 3-5 where you can definitely get a date and are open to the possibility, but aren't really looking/haven't found the right fit.
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Lol, so one could say you're a playa lol :p
 
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Lol I'm still right then. You're gonna be loved for your strength by men whether they're Christian or not. The difference is the Christian man will love your weaknesses too. Lol no one has forced you into any mold but yourself. Don't be afraid to open yourself up and let a good man get to know you.
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Actually, because you were wrong, you just took what I said, rephrased it into your own words, and then said that you were still right. So what actually happened is that you adopted my point of view. In which case yes, you are now right, which you were not previously.
 
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Actually, because you were wrong, you just took what I said, rephrased it into your own words, and then said that you were still right. So what actually happened is that you adopted my point of view. In which case yes, you are now right, which you were not previously.
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Lol nay, my point has remained the same. Just trying to rephrase it in a way that you can understand :)
 
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I'm starting to feel like a spectator at a tennis game. Back and forth, back and forth, serve and return...
 
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I'm starting to feel like a spectator at a tennis game. Back and forth, back and forth, serve and return...
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Im sorry. I realize this isn't going to help, but... What's the score? ^_~
 
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Except nobody wins this game.
 
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AsifinPassing said:
I try not to be... Only sadness and pain down that road...for everybody.
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Aye indeed. Lol just punning, but indeed don't be a playa sir Asifin, you are a very kind man. May God grant you a woman that will love you despite your sadness and bring joy to your heart, praise Jesus.
 
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sealabeag said:
Except nobody wins this game.
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There are many un-winnable games in life... like war, for instance, but I've aided and abetted in derailing (which is a common crime). Forgive me, Zero. I really answered honestly to start with, and do like this thread/idea. (The rabbit trail takes interesting turns though...doesn't it, my friend?)
 
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