Do You Have a Princess Complex?

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seoulsearch

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So I can count maybe two people who have acknowledged this, and the majority who have denied it. It just further proves my point. I am simply utilizing my right to free speech and to have opinions, most of which are based on true anecdotal evidence. I am aware that anecdotal evidence cannot create true diagnosis, but I wasn't attempting to make a real diagnosis or create something new in the DSM. I just wanted to see the kind of reaction I got, and I'm not surprised.
Hear Ye, Hear Ye!!!

His Highness the Prince has Officially Made His Royal Declaration.
 

ronnie2796

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Yes there are women out there that have a "princess" mentality, that think they're better than everyone else and should be taken care of. But not every woman that values herself, has high standards, or takes care of her family is guilty of that.

There is a balance between being humble, as we are servants to others, and servants of God, and between being a Princess, Because our Father is the Most High King. We MUST find worth and value in that as women.
 

proverbs35

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Then God said to Abraham, "As for Sarai your wife, you shall not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall be her name (Genesis 17:15).

In Hebrew the meaning of the name Sarah is princess. In the Bible, Sarah was the wife of Abraham and mother of Isaac. Her name was originally Sarai (quarrelsome), but God commanded that her name be changed to Sarah before the birth of her son.
Sarah name meaning

Wesley's Notes for Genesis 17:15
Sarah shall her name be - The same letter is added to her name that was to Abraham's. Sarai signifies my princess, as if her honour were confined to one family only: Sarah signifies a princess, viz. of multitudes.
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In the Christian community, we are often reminded that Sarah called her husband Abraham lord and master. 1 Peter 3:6

However, many omit the fact that Abraham called his wife Sarah "princess" and God told Abraham to do that.
 
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I want a princess complex!! Where can I get one?? :D
 

MartyrNdaMaKn

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Yes, yes, I do have a princess complex myself, wait...what! Sorry I mean a prince complex....lol
 
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Ugly

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I know this exists because I grew up around many people who were genuinely like this. Not just at face value, but I really knew the inner workings of what was going on in many families. So I know its not just me, or just some kind of false lens I have. This is a real phenomenon. My mother was one of these women at one time. My father did quite well so she took that as an opportunity to play tennis, bridge, go shopping, and just be a taker, while the maid basically took care of us. After the market crashed and the housing bubble burst in 08 my father's business went down hill and he had to find another venture, which is part of being an entrepreneur. Now, she resents having to work because she became dependent on that lifestyle, and she holds it over my father's head. And it wasn't just my family. There is a large subsection of society that have these sort of expectations. I worked for Hospice for years and dealt with thousands of families over a period of about 5 years, from all walks of life, and I met many good people. However, there is a larger-than-you think group of people who have ill intent motives and are not that upset that their husband may be dying because of the life insurance money they will acquire and what will be left to them, and people fighting over the money that will be left behind. The majority of people fighting over the inheritance were women. This is not my imagination. It was real. I know there are men out there with prince mentalities as well, and we can certainly talk about that sometime too. I am just curious as to why some of you want to defend yourselves instead of just honestly addressing this reality.
It's obvious you are picking and choosing which posts to take notice of and respond to. Only the ones that fuel this thread. *bows out of troll thread for good.
 
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Then God said to Abraham, "As for Sarai your wife, you shall not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall be her name (Genesis 17:15).

In Hebrew the meaning of the name Sarah is princess. In the Bible, Sarah was the wife of Abraham and mother of Isaac. Her name was originally Sarai (quarrelsome), but God commanded that her name be changed to Sarah before the birth of her son.
Sarah name meaning

Wesley's Notes for Genesis 17:15
Sarah shall her name be - The same letter is added to her name that was to Abraham's. Sarai signifies my princess, as if her honour were confined to one family only: Sarah signifies a princess, viz. of multitudes.
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In the Christian community, we are often reminded that Sarah called her husband Abraham lord and master. 1 Peter 3:6

However, many omit the fact that Abraham called his wife Sarah "princess" and God told Abraham to do that.
Lol, I think we are talking about two different meanings of princess. Interesting though
 
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Heh though I get what you're trying to say here though brother Scott the Great. You make some fair points indeed! I'd argue every single girl has a Princess Complex, BUT, there are two types of Princess.

To explain the Two Princess Types Logic, I guess I gotta go biblical on it.

Good Princess Complex--- Israelite Princess Hadassah/Esther type princesses

Bad Princess Complex--- Sidonian Princess Jezebel type princesses

What you want is an Esther not a Jezebel.
I'm not sure if EVERY girl has a good/bad princess complex, given how many out there have such awfully low levels of confidence and self-worth. However, I think you're on to something, and the part in bold really stood out to me.

When we we ladies find our identity in Christ, we are princesses. Humble, servant-hearted, princesses who fear and bow to no other god than our one true God. We may submit to certain others out of obedience to Christ, but we ought not have any idols/gods before Christ. There is confidence, courage, and a quiet strength in a daughter of the King.
 
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I want to be clear with everyone. I do not think EVERY woman has a princess complex. So if anyone saw it that way and was offended, I apologize. I am only speaking of a segment of women who are this way. I went back and read my posts to see if I referred to EVERY woman, and I did not, but I guess some of you thought that for some reason, so I am apologizing anyway. And I also dont believe that only women can be evil, men can be too.
 
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kayem77

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Were you possibly a first born child, the oldest of your siblings? Or the last born and potentially over-looked so your mother over-compensated for it by taking the lazy way out and just telling you that you were a princess, and leading you to actually believe that? Do you watch episodes of Dateline and actually believe the world's most advanced propaganda system? It may have really happened, but it is televised for a purpose. Do you believe that you are God's gift to all men, and that they will all eventually fall in love with you? When a man gives you attention, do you feel the need to tell everyone about it in order to increase your feeling of self-worth? Have you ever used any of the words: creepy, creep, psycho, stalker, freaked out, etc..? Do you avoid one-on-one communication with men because you would rather have your girlfriends to bail you out of what you think may be "awkward moments of silence"? Do you wear excessive amounts of makeup on a regular basis? Do you use your child support money for luxury items? Do you have any male friends that you are totally aware of the fact that they want and would accept more than friendship with you, but you continue to stay friends with them? How many rings do you have on both hands, total, more than one? Do you buy anything for the brand name alone, when there is no evidence of it having better quality? Do you tell your girlfriends about everything that happens in your life, literally? Have you shared what your husband/boyfriend/date thought he told you in confidence, with your mother? Did you always think in your mind that the way you would like things to happen when marrying and having children was that you would be a stay at home mother and not work, because you think that is what is best for the children, to give them the "time and attention they need"??
I think I understand where you're trying to go with this post, but I really don't see any relation to having a PC with the things I highlighted above because...
1) there are creepers and stalkers out there, and so yes, we need words to describe those people :creepers and stalkers and psychos even; 2) avoiding communication with the opposite sex actually reveals having an insecure, or maybe just shy personality, and everyone, not just women, do this very often ; 3) So.. are you saying I should start dating any guy who expresses or shows interest in me? Am I obligated to date any guy even if I don't like them back? doesn't sound very wise; 4) Not sure where you were going with this question. Sometimes I wear two rings in one hand. Does that mean anything? (I'm genuinely confused); and lastly, being a stay at home mom is not sinful, unless said mom was not doing any tasks at home and being unwise with her time I guess.
 
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I think I understand where you're trying to go with this post, but I really don't see any relation to having a PC with the things I highlighted above because...
1) there are creepers and stalkers out there, and so yes, we need words to describe those people :creepers and stalkers and psychos even; 2) avoiding communication with the opposite sex actually reveals having an insecure, or maybe just shy personality, and everyone, not just women, do this very often ; 3) So.. are you saying I should start dating any guy who expresses or shows interest in me? Am I obligated to date any guy even if I don't like them back? doesn't sound very wise; 4) Not sure where you were going with this question. Sometimes I wear two rings in one hand. Does that mean anything? (I'm genuinely confused); and lastly, being a stay at home mom is not sinful, unless said mom was not doing any tasks at home and being unwise with her time I guess.
Yea, I should have explained further.

1. I am speaking of women who use those words to describe men who have NOT stalked them and haven't been creepy. They just use those words to describe men who may just seem odd to them. I hear it all the time, and it is a way to put someone else down while glorifying themselves.

2. I am not speaking of women who are just shy. Yes, shy girls do exist but I am not speaking of those. I am speaking of women who do not want to put themselves in a position where they must be socially independent because they are use to having a group of their girlfriends around to act as their identity because they have been spoiled their whole lives and haven't had to earn anything with their communication skills.

3. No, you shouldn't date anyone who shows interest in you, not at all what I am saying, so sorry if I wasn't clear. I am speaking about women who have male friends that they know are interested in them, and instead of distancing themselves from them in order not to hurt them or lead them on, they keep them in the friend zone because they need the attention for their self esteem.

4. Not necessarily two rings or any certain number, but just women who wear alot of bling to try and look like a princess, not realizing that being a princess is an inside job, and that being treated like a princess is earned by being a loving, caring, helpful, non-judgmental woman of God. And being a stay at home mom is not bad, but more of the intentions behind being a stay at home mom. If it is to receive a free ride and go shopping and watch soap operas....while the kids are at school.
 
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kayem77

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Yea, I should have explained further.

1. I am speaking of women who use those words to describe men who have NOT stalked them and haven't been creepy. They just use those words to describe men who may just seem odd to them. I hear it all the time, and it is a way to put someone else down while glorifying themselves.

2. I am not speaking of women who are just shy. Yes, shy girls do exist but I am not speaking of those. I am speaking of women who do not want to put themselves in a position where they must be socially independent because they are use to having a group of their girlfriends around to act as their identity because they have been spoiled their whole lives and haven't had to earn anything with their communication skills.

3. No, you shouldn't date anyone who shows interest in you, not at all what I am saying, so sorry if I wasn't clear. I am speaking about women who have male friends that they know are interested in them, and instead of distancing themselves from them in order not to hurt them or lead them on, they keep them in the friend zone because they need the attention for their self esteem.

4. Not necessarily two rings or any certain number, but just women who wear alot of bling to try and look like a princess, not realizing that being a princess is an inside job, and that being treated like a princess is earned by being a loving, caring, helpful, non-judgmental woman of God. And being a stay at home mom is not bad, but more of the intentions behind being a stay at home mom. If it is to receive a free ride and go shopping and watch soap operas....while the kids are at school.
Okay now that you put it like that it makes more sense :) . I actually agree with you on everything you said
 

Cee

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Women should be treated like a princess because their Father is a King, not because of what they do, but who they are, and more accurately Who's they are. They don't earn it. Christ did.

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I agree with Kayem. Your recent explanation cleared up a lot of things and I think you communicated your ideas much more effectively. I actually agree with everything you said. :)
 
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Women should be treated like a princess because their Father is a King, not because of what they do, but who they are, and more accurately Who's they are. They don't earn it. Christ did.

C.
Very eloquently put and it sounds good but in a Utopian society, yes, all women would accept Christ and have him shine through them. Unfortunately, it's not the case.
 

ronnie2796

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Yay!! This thread has kinda come full circle I think, with some communication :)
It makes me smile, and I'm pretty happy about it. lol
 

hoss2576

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Very eloquently put and it sounds good but in a Utopian society, yes, all women would accept Christ and have him shine through them. Unfortunately, it's not the case.
Whether they have accepted Christ or not is irrelevant as far as how you treat them. Sadly, no, not everyone has accepted Him, and that will be between Him and them, but we as men, still treat them as princesses. We have a different standard to follow.
 
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Donkeyfish07

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Whether they have accepted Christ or not is irrelevant as far as how you treat them. Sadly, no, not everyone has accepted Him, and that will be between Him and them, but we as men, still treat them as princesses. We have a different standard to follow.
I like your philosophy sir.