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If someone likes you more than a friend, do you want him/her to tell you?

  • Yes, because it will clear the air.

    Votes: 33 56.9%

  • Yes, because I might like them back.

    Votes: 19 32.8%

  • No, it will make things awkward if I don't like them back.

    Votes: 5 8.6%

  • No, I want to be the one to say something.

    Votes: 1 1.7%
  • Total voters
    58
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DarlinNadia

Guest
#41
#41
coffee shop guy?
 
gardinia

gardinia

Junior Member
#42
May 2, 2014
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#42
hiii... i agree with u lol
 
Tiasmiles24

Tiasmiles24

Member
#43
May 10, 2014
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#43
I'd want to know, because if I liked him back then it could be the start to something. Now if I didn't feel the same way it wouldn't be awkward because I wouldn't let it get awkward unless he did.. :)
 
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fourleaf

Guest
#44
#44
I don't, if the feeling is not mutual because it will change the relationship. For me anyway.

I had a co-worker who is attracted to me, before he broadcast it, we were okay, we talk about work and he doesn't afraid to ask or approach whenever we see each other and vice versa but soon as he broadcast it, i felt awkward and began to silent. I think from there, he knew i wasn't interested.

But some people are different, some like to know if the person are attracted to them because it makes them feel good about themselves even if they are not attracted to that person.
 
Lynx

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
#45
Aug 13, 2014
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#45
Necromancer. :p
 
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MollyConnor

Guest
#46
#46
I would...but only if I felt the same way. So yeah...I could see why it would be tricky. We're never really sure what's going on in another person's mind.
 
BruceWayne

BruceWayne

Senior Member
#47
Aug 7, 2013
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#47
I would not. I don't have the time, nor the energy to put into something like that atm. :p
 
TriviaGirl86

TriviaGirl86

Senior Member
#49
Nov 2, 2011
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#49
I want to know why Crimson_Lark isn't a man. That's what I want to know... ;)
 
Roh_Chris

Roh_Chris

Senior Member
#51
Jun 15, 2014
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#51
Yes, I would like to know.

I would do the same thing, if I was falling for someone. :)
 
shineyourlight

shineyourlight

Senior Member
#52
May 25, 2015
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#52
I can get pretty shy with these type of things. Typically, I do not confess my feeling for someone....but there have been a few times where I have.

I really need some nudging and I need to make sure you return the feelings as well. I would appreciate it if someone tells me they have feelings for me, honestly haha.
 
melita916

melita916

Senior Member
#53
Aug 12, 2011
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#53
personally, i can never tell if a guy likes me. i guess because i never really expect it, and since i don't know how to flirt, if a guy has liked me in the past, he probably didn't pursue since he had no clue of my feelings (since i'm also very private about my feelings).

even if friends say, "yeah he likes you," my response to it is, "well, he hasn't said he likes me... so... idk." so do i want him to tell me he likes me? depends if it's mutual. but how will he know if i don't have dem skillzzzz? lol in my 1st relationship, he just straight out said he liked me. it just so happened i liked him, too. he just had to go for it and hope for the best. lol
 
jsr1221

jsr1221

Senior Member
#54
Jul 7, 2013
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BruceWayne said:
Lol! Welp, time to make like The Dark Knight Rises and go into hiding for the next 8 years.
Click to expand...
Or, you lose to Super Man in the BatMan vs. Super Man movie next year? :rolleyes:
 
jsr1221

jsr1221

Senior Member
#55
Jul 7, 2013
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#55
I would want a girl to tell me if she has feelings for me simply because we're called to be honest with one another. When we start holding back how we truly feel, we're not really trusting God in what the outcome will be, because we're acting on our own thoughts and feelings instead of what God might be having on hearts. We're supposed to trust in the Lord with all our hearts, and not lean on our own understanding, and that includes telling someone of the opposite sex "Hey, I like you." Just my opinion.
 
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Abing

Guest
#56
#56
Interesting poll. No one voted "No, I want to be the one to say something."
 
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LiJo

Guest
#58
#58
I have problem knowing when someone likes me, so it would be nice to know :)
 
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LonelyChristian

Banned
#59
Jun 18, 2015
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#59
Yes, I would like to know. Then it won't be a mystery to me. It certainly is difficult to know what women are thinking. Especially when it comes to matters of romance. Well, difficult for me, anyhow. I think it is attractive when a woman is honest about her feelings. Hopefully, I will feel the same way about her, and we could become more than friends perhaps:)
 
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DCrawshawJr

Guest
#60
#60
I would like them to tell me if they liked me in this matter, but I also would like to do the same. I just want to set them aside, and spill the beans. Not rocket science. (Although it would help if you had a date idea in mind...)
 
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