Laughing at yourself and self deprecating humor is COMPLETELY different from calling yourself a derogatory nickname about your stomach, of all body parts. Ask these ladies you know if they would call themselves “Jelly Belly”. I bet you any amount of money, they would not. A woman may joke about her nose, her chin, her legs, her thighs, but women do not make nicknames disparaging themselves, nor do they choose the stomach as that is the one body part MOST women are most sensitive about. Look, there is no way to know if “jelly belly” is actually a man or a woman. My instincts say “man”. Call it female intuition.
I paint with a broad brush, because it covers more area. Most people fit into categories, this is why criminal profiling is a thing that is used in forensics. Most women can’t choke a grown man to death with their bare hands, for example. Broad brush, but it often works.
How come you don’t have me on ignore?