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So to all of you:
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...
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So to all of you:
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...
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When we follow the Lord, even the bummy moments are a win for us because the Lord is our victory I’m glad your eyes were open to see past emotions.
Hearing your update reminded me of when I liked someone years ago. He was a new Christian, but I really enjoyed his company! Then the Lord showed me I needed to be his “big sister” and not a potential girlfriend since he was a baby in the faith.
I’m glad your eyes were open to see past emotions. Hearing your update reminded me of when I liked someone years ago. He was a new Christian, but I really enjoyed his company! Then the Lord showed me I needed to be his “big sister” and not a potential girlfriend since he was a baby in the faith.
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When we follow the Lord, even the bummy moments are a win for us because the Lord is our victory I’m glad your eyes were open to see past emotions.
Hearing your update reminded me of when I liked someone years ago. He was a new Christian, but I really enjoyed his company! Then the Lord showed me I needed to be his “big sister” and not a potential girlfriend since he was a baby in the faith.
I’m glad your eyes were open to see past emotions.Hearing your update reminded me of when I liked someone years ago. He was a new Christian, but I really enjoyed his company! Then the Lord showed me I needed to be his “big sister” and not a potential girlfriend since he was a baby in the faith.
When we follow the Lord, even the bummy moments are a win for us because the Lord is our victory I’m glad your eyes were open to see past emotions.
Hearing your update reminded me of when I liked someone years ago. He was a new Christian, but I really enjoyed his company! Then the Lord showed me I needed to be his “big sister” and not a potential girlfriend since he was a baby in the faith.
I’m glad your eyes were open to see past emotions.Hearing your update reminded me of when I liked someone years ago. He was a new Christian, but I really enjoyed his company! Then the Lord showed me I needed to be his “big sister” and not a potential girlfriend since he was a baby in the faith.
Yes - this whole week has been a week of "no's". It's not always easy when God shuts the doors. But after contemplating it a bit - it's better than being let through them... I know that but I feel like I am not sure what's coming next - exciting and nerve wrecking too... haha
Oh that is such a God thing - you know - a person we like comes along but it's not for the reasons we might have expected. Often I have felt I was meant to help someone but they ended up helping me much more than I helped them LOL
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I think as christians its not so much who we 'end up' with it its who we are worshipping right now that determines our eternal fate.
marriage in the scheme of things, is rather temporary. Fairy tales like to say theres a happily ever after which equals to marriage, but reality is there are very few princes in THIS world.
marriage in the scheme of things, is rather temporary. Fairy tales like to say theres a happily ever after which equals to marriage, but reality is there are very few princes in THIS world.
So to all of you:
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...
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I think it might be the latter. hmm
when people write 'Gluten Free' it means a product with no gluten in it not that Gluten is particularly expensive....
I am supposing if you are evangelical and go to this church when they ask for tithes you can say its ok, youre an evangelical and dont have to. So if he's one, but you are not, he can let you in for free I suppose. Mates rates?
when people write 'Gluten Free' it means a product with no gluten in it not that Gluten is particularly expensive....
I am supposing if you are evangelical and go to this church when they ask for tithes you can say its ok, youre an evangelical and dont have to. So if he's one, but you are not, he can let you in for free I suppose. Mates rates?
So to all of you:
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...
We did have that meeting in the Coffee Shop and walked around a bit after - But in Person it was not a match at all - I think mostly because he was not honest with himself. He does not seem to be ready for a relationship or to let someone into his life.
I also didn't think it was a very pleasant meeting because even though he said "it was a meeting just to be friends" this is not how you find "friends" it felt unnatural. But Like I said I think those vibes came from him lol
Is not actually something I ever experienced meeting a person from a dating site before - but also the more we spoke about our faith - the more I also felt we were not going to be a match. (which one of my older friends here said she had felt a concern with)
So all in all I was a bit bummed - I wish he had known himself better to keep me from going through this- but also I feel more sure than ever that I should mostly focus on Jesus and the Carrier changes that are hopefully in my future...