you remember that God loves YOU not who you are or who you will become but YOU. You learn how God loves you and you show it to others. You allow your heart to be changed by God and allow yourself to have a tender heart and communicate with others though they may not thank you for it and may hate you for speaking the truth.
YouTube - JJ Heller - What Love Really Means (Official Music Video)
remember God loves you for you.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New King James Version)
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Have faith God has plans for you. My husband is very logical and brutally honest which makes some people think he is mean and oppressive, but they don't know either of us very well.
My shield is that I seem very sweet and innocent but I'm passive aggressive and my shield wears thin at times and I'm not so nice. My husband on the other hand is a big softy sometimes especially with the kids and me.
I'm spoiled rotten and I know it. LOL for our wedding aniversy he got me one of those cleaning robots
because I hate vacuuming and cleaning in general. I want the Jetson maid lol.
just remember everyone is different and GOD made us that way. You may be ready for a relationship but what if the person God has in mind for you still has some growing to do?
Peace of the Lord be with you.
Your Sister in Christ.