I'm sorry to say that I am generally on giant walking bad first impression simply cause I don't fit into whatever nebulous mold women seem to have these days. I always say the wrong thing, and I'm apparently too nice. I could probably go on given enough time, but.... The thing I've found is that women usually don't want to take the time to get to know me. They see that first half second and decide that the nervous crazy guy is who I am.