Friday the 13th. (A.K.A., Dating Horror Stories.)

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MusicalMe

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Yay, I inspired a thread! I'm officially cool (well, the CC version of cool anyway!)

I won't repeat the horror stories from the other thread, if you're curious you'll just have to go find it for yourself...

Let's see, there was the time I was at an amusement park with a bunch of friends and my boyfriend... after we got off the very first ride, he leaned over the railing and puked. He smelled like it for the rest of the day.

I've been wrong-named before... I first met the guy when he was dating Jen but they'd been broken up for a few years by the time we went out. We were making out one evening and he said "Ohhh Jen..." Yeah, that's flattering...

The last guy I dated made a habit of telling me after a date how he would have preferred to do it differently - for example, we'd go out to a restaurant like Chili's or something and afterwards he'd be like "I would have just been ok with fast food." Or I'd suggest something to do and he'd be all for it and then at the last minute say "We're not really doing this, are we?" And I'm not talking about skydiving or something here, I'm talking about going to visit a mutual friend and we got all the way to the apartment and he decided he didn't want to. And by the way, I'm so not an expensive date. I don't require constant gifts or 5-star restaurants or any of that and I paid for stuff about as often as he did, because that's just who I am. But you'd think I was asking for diamonds and champagne or something. Once he suggested going for a drive to explore the area and see some country and then complained about how much gas he wasted like it was my fault.

I should go on the date thread and post some good dates... I really have had some good ones, but the bad ones are more fun to talk about, lol!!
 
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Arj7002

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Imagine this: Valentines Day. You GF's fathers birthday as well. It was a disaster.
 
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Arj7002

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I'll go into more detail later haha.
 
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missy2shoes

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gahhhhhhhhhhhh and leave us in suspense????????????????.......cruel :p.......lol
 
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Arj7002

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Haha, I have to take a shower and stuff soon for work :D
 
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missy2shoes

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*waits *
 
Kakashi

Kakashi

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*waits longer* Man he must be dirty...taking a shower for so long...
 
Sharp

Sharp

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14-hour shower, that's heaps long. Maybe he was rolling in the mud...
 
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MusicalMe

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And I thought my 20 minute showers were excessive...
 
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sweet_eyes

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"builds house while waiting"
 
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missy2shoes

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This is gonna be good......*pops popcorn in readiness*
 
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SamIam

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hey guys what are we waitin for?????
 
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missy2shoes

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Arj's dating horror story ;)
 
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SamIam

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ooohhhhhhh whose ARJ????
 
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SamIam

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hahahahah thanks missy that really helps!!
 
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MusicalMe

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Apparently it involves a Valentine's day on a girlfriend's father's birthday or something. With that many elements, it's got to be good. Hey, maybe we should all start guessing what we think the story is going to be...
 
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Arj7002

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Okay, I'm back. That sure was a good shower! Haha I had to work after the shower and then I slept for a few hours! Sorry about the suspense, but hopefully the story is worth it.

It starts out as any other date, I stopped by her house, talked with her and her mother. (We had been dating for about 2 years at this point so I was part of the family.) Anyways, I planned on taking her out to eat then maybe catching a movie or something, not anything super romantic but just spending time together. At the time I was in college and poor and she understood that, and in turn I didn't get to see her much so everytime we saw each other was pretty special to me.

Anyways we head out, are having a great conversation when she gets a few text messages. Now it really bothers me when people interrupt conversations, and expecially when it is a special day or something. I mean here I am devoting my full attention to her while she texts everyone in her phonebook. So we get to the resteraunt and start eating. I try to carry a conversation with her, but every few minutes she gets a text from a friend or her family about V-day or her dad's birthday. So eventually I start getting annoyed and just stop talking because at this point we aren't really having a converstaion. Anyways we finish eating, and she asks, "Can we stop at Hallmark so I can get a card for my dad?"

Well I say sure and at this point have realized that I just became a chauffuer for the day apparently. We stop at Hallmark and I follow her patiently around as she looks at birthday cards. (I didn't even get a card for Valentines day) After 30 minutes of debating, she chooses the perfect one. As we go out to the car, she asks if I could make a stop to Hy-Vee. If you don't know what that is, it's like a huge grocery store. I stop, and then wait for another 15-20 minutes as she chooses a cake and talks to her brother about whether she should get chocolate or vanilla.

Needless to say the ride home for me was mostly spent in silence with the occasional 'Are you okay?' from her. I always said yes because I really didn't want to have a fight on Valentines day, but for me the day was over and I was just going to take her home.

We arrive at her house, where I drop her off and she runs inside. She asks if I am coming, but I had already had enough so I said no. She says, 'Oh okay.' and then leaves. Later that night, at about 5:30, I get a phone call from her. I figured it was to apologize or something. Instead, she asks if I want to eat dinner with her, her brothers, and her father for his birthday. It is probably important to tell everyone that her father and I didn't get along very well, and had literally said less than 300 words to eachother in over 2 years. Of coarse I said no and left it at that.

It truly was one of the worst dates of my life, but what made it worse was the fact that she never apologized or acted like she did anything wrong. It probably makes sense we broke up a month later, like 2 weeks after our 2 year anniversary.
 
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MusicalMe

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Wow, Arj... that's rude. (her, not you). Definitely better off without that kind of treatment...
 
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Arj7002

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Haha I guess. We had a great relationship for over 2 years though, it was really hard when she broke up with me. Life goes on though.
 
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