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I have something else to say,
Your one of a kind =D
In a good way, your a nice person who likes doing nice things just because, please dont let anyone or anything change you except for God =)
If you want to go help your sisters go shoping thats nice =D
You get to know what kind of things girls like or different type of girls like.
If you send flowers to people yay but a little tip you might not want to send them to girls when you get a girlfriend because that would make her jealous & some people might lie to her or think that you are cheating on her, but while your single i think its super nice =D
Id be super happy if out of no were a friend, & sometimes a stranger (i get a lil paranoid at times when it comes to strangers sending me things i might think :O its poisoned or something lol) sent me a box of chocolates , roses, a little candle or something little because its the taught that counts =)
Your one of a kind =D
In a good way, your a nice person who likes doing nice things just because, please dont let anyone or anything change you except for God =)
If you want to go help your sisters go shoping thats nice =D
You get to know what kind of things girls like or different type of girls like.
If you send flowers to people yay but a little tip you might not want to send them to girls when you get a girlfriend because that would make her jealous & some people might lie to her or think that you are cheating on her, but while your single i think its super nice =D
Id be super happy if out of no were a friend, & sometimes a stranger (i get a lil paranoid at times when it comes to strangers sending me things i might think :O its poisoned or something lol) sent me a box of chocolates , roses, a little candle or something little because its the taught that counts =)
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Meridoc, just stay the way you are. You sound Super Cool. Most ladies you have met don't know what they are missing. Also I remember that you have a talent for singing, especially switching to the right voices in the songs, to what time and artist it is. 
Truly, the lady that God has for you, will be so very lucky when getting you.
Also, I don't understand the problem other friends have with you wanting to buy things to encourage others etc..? I get very happy whenever a good friend shows that they care for me, and I do like to write someone a card of encouragement if they are ill, or visit someone when feeling to lonely, I also call friends if they are feeling very low and sad because I want to be there for them(even if it is to another country, doesn't matter to me, my friends are more important to me than the extra money it might cost), to me my friends are very important to me, and I want to take care of them.
Such friends like you are very rare and precious to have, true good friends are very difficult to find.
I am also a very non fitting-in person in many ways, I have at moments heard people telling me that I am a very original and a weird person(in a positive way, that person added, lol), and I do agree that I am a very different person too. And I am very creative in my way of dressing, I like to be having many styles(except of to sugar sweet, I don't like looking to simple minded). I am my own self, and like you, I want to continue being who I am. Though it might sure be difficult at times to when others thinks us weird or laughs at who we are, I even had one friend that thought I was having a diagnosis, and that that's why I am so more different than others. A very wrong diagnosis, since I am not the way it is descibed in there.
Like I don't like going shopping so much, I am often more practical about what I buy and not buy, and I many times like going inside of a shop for a short time and then out again. I get a strong headache if staying to long inside of a shop. Most femenine creatures loves shopping, I don't. Many ladies chooses to help with making dinner, doing housework with their mother etc... Whilst when I lived at my parents 7 months before marrying, I liked best joining my father outside, helping him with the woods etc.... This was especially most during the winter season, I loved dressing up all warm and feeling the cold breeze on my face, doing more men stuff outside (although now I sure don't mind doing some dinner and housework at our own home) I love often the simple things in life, like having picnic outside, go with my husband fishing sometimes, going to a cabine in the mountains(not possible where I live now, but in norway it is), taking loong walks, going to a Camping with a tent, going to a Café, etc... It is sure also nice going to an expensive restaurant and such similiar events once in a while, but I don't need most things being very expensive to enjoy my time together with my husband, friends or other people. I don't wear much make up, but I do at moments like to fix up myself a bit more. Still, if we would go fishing for a whole weekend out in the forest somewhere without a shower around or somewhere to wash me, I would have survived fine, also without any make up in mind, and maybe looking a bit shabby, I don't mind that. I beleive most preppy girls wouldn't like that so much Still, I do like looking femenine, and I do consider myself being a very femenine lady.
But like you say, I don't feel like fitting so very in into the very femenine nor the very masculine catergory. I am just very different! But well, I beleive God has a reason for creating someone like us too, so we should just be happy that we dare being more ourselves than what many others might not dare out there.
Keep on rocking for Jesus, the way you are!
Truly, the lady that God has for you, will be so very lucky when getting you. Also, I don't understand the problem other friends have with you wanting to buy things to encourage others etc..? I get very happy whenever a good friend shows that they care for me, and I do like to write someone a card of encouragement if they are ill, or visit someone when feeling to lonely, I also call friends if they are feeling very low and sad because I want to be there for them(even if it is to another country, doesn't matter to me, my friends are more important to me than the extra money it might cost), to me my friends are very important to me, and I want to take care of them.
Such friends like you are very rare and precious to have, true good friends are very difficult to find.
I am also a very non fitting-in person in many ways, I have at moments heard people telling me that I am a very original and a weird person(in a positive way, that person added, lol), and I do agree that I am a very different person too. And I am very creative in my way of dressing, I like to be having many styles(except of to sugar sweet, I don't like looking to simple minded). I am my own self, and like you, I want to continue being who I am. Though it might sure be difficult at times to when others thinks us weird or laughs at who we are, I even had one friend that thought I was having a diagnosis, and that that's why I am so more different than others. A very wrong diagnosis, since I am not the way it is descibed in there.
Like I don't like going shopping so much, I am often more practical about what I buy and not buy, and I many times like going inside of a shop for a short time and then out again. I get a strong headache if staying to long inside of a shop. Most femenine creatures loves shopping, I don't. Many ladies chooses to help with making dinner, doing housework with their mother etc... Whilst when I lived at my parents 7 months before marrying, I liked best joining my father outside, helping him with the woods etc.... This was especially most during the winter season, I loved dressing up all warm and feeling the cold breeze on my face, doing more men stuff outside
(although now I sure don't mind doing some dinner and housework at our own home) I love often the simple things in life, like having picnic outside, go with my husband fishing sometimes, going to a cabine in the mountains(not possible where I live now, but in norway it is), taking loong walks, going to a Camping with a tent, going to a Café, etc... It is sure also nice going to an expensive restaurant and such similiar events once in a while, but I don't need most things being very expensive to enjoy my time together with my husband, friends or other people. I don't wear much make up, but I do at moments like to fix up myself a bit more. Still, if we would go fishing for a whole weekend out in the forest somewhere without a shower around or somewhere to wash me, I would have survived fine, also without any make up in mind, and maybe looking a bit shabby, I don't mind that. I beleive most preppy girls wouldn't like that so much Still, I do like looking femenine, and I do consider myself being a very femenine lady. But like you say, I don't feel like fitting so very in into the very femenine nor the very masculine catergory. I am just very different! But well, I beleive God has a reason for creating someone like us too, so we should just be happy that we dare being more ourselves than what many others might not dare out there.
Keep on rocking for Jesus, the way you are!
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