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Approach me only if you know something more about me than how I look. It's nothing personal, but I don't know anything other than how you look and, if you're a guy talking to random women based on how they look, odds are you're a creep. Sorry. I'm sure if we talked for a while I'd know better, but I'm dull that way.
Also, it's good to bring a friend along. A female friend. A female friend we both know is much better. It proves that you able to keep one within ten feet of you without constantly trying to date it. If you find yourself trying to date all your female friends, do not approach. You are frantic and probably impatient. This will go poorly for you.
Don't try to be witty. If you approach with a joke, I will throw whatever is closest, even if it's your female friend. I'm not a television audience. I was probably minding my own business, trying to figure out what the new Starbucks latte with the sixty letter name includes. I'm not there waiting breathlessly for your line. I'm thirsty.
Honestly, no strangers have ever pulled off a good "approach" to me. The men who are nice and normal enough to do it right seem to not need to. The men I know personally as friends, also, haven't needed any approach strategy. I found myself dating from among that pool naturally.
Also, it's good to bring a friend along. A female friend. A female friend we both know is much better. It proves that you able to keep one within ten feet of you without constantly trying to date it. If you find yourself trying to date all your female friends, do not approach. You are frantic and probably impatient. This will go poorly for you.
Don't try to be witty. If you approach with a joke, I will throw whatever is closest, even if it's your female friend. I'm not a television audience. I was probably minding my own business, trying to figure out what the new Starbucks latte with the sixty letter name includes. I'm not there waiting breathlessly for your line. I'm thirsty.
Honestly, no strangers have ever pulled off a good "approach" to me. The men who are nice and normal enough to do it right seem to not need to. The men I know personally as friends, also, haven't needed any approach strategy. I found myself dating from among that pool naturally.