Giving up, Pursuing Jesus

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jrccomputer

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Well that's good, I know it's hard to meet people, especially those whose morals match up to yours. Especially at the age of 19. But let me tell you, the girl that get's a guy who won't just date someone because they think she's hot, is a lucky girl.
I'm also still waiting until marriage. Its very hard to even find someone who has my same morals. Sadly most of the girls that share my morals live down south.
 
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I quit when I was about 16. welcome to the i quit and dont care anymore club.
 
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ServantStrike

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You are looking for a woman to Complete you and you don't realize it. I say that Because you bring up daTing a lot.

Don't go Join a monastary out Of frustration. Just be patient. 19 is very yOung still. Most of the woMen at that age are still girls not WoMen. They have no idea what they want.

And abstinent women are all over the country not just in the south.
 

jrccomputer

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You are looking for a woman to Complete you and you don't realize it. I say that Because you bring up daTing a lot.

Don't go Join a monastary out Of frustration. Just be patient. 19 is very yOung still. Most of the woMen at that age are still girls not WoMen. They have no idea what they want.

And abstinent women are all over the country not just in the south.
My morals go way beyond abstinent though. No smoking, drink, cursing(even dang and crap are bad), no porn (I've never watched it), I tried not to watch tv unless its fox news (they keep it very clean), and many more.

When you say morals peoples minds go right to abstinent, it is much more than that.

What my Mom always told me "Garbage in, garbage out" what you watch, listen to and people u hang with determine your "garbage out"
 

Gary

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Now wait a minute.......it depends what was said! :p
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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My morals go way beyond abstinent though. No smoking, drink, cursing(even dang and crap are bad), no porn (I've never watched it), I tried not to watch tv unless its fox news (they keep it very clean), and many more.

When you say morals peoples minds go right to abstinent, it is much more than that.

What my Mom always told me "Garbage in, garbage out" what you watch, listen to and people u hang with determine your "garbage out"

FOX NEWS!!!???!!!??? Oh,well there's where your troubles all stem from bro! lol :cool:
 
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ServantStrike

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My morals go way beyond abstinent though. No smoking, drink, cursing(even dang and crap are bad), no porn (I've never watched it), I tried not to watch tv unless its fox news (they keep it very clean), and many more.

When you say morals peoples minds go right to abstinent, it is much more than that.

What my Mom always told me "Garbage in, garbage out" what you watch, listen to and people u hang with determine your "garbage out"
I occasionally let an expletive slip, but I stick with crap when I'm not in a state of utter consternation.

I can relate to what you're saying.


You're worrying too much about this. God will provide you with a woman to marry eventually, just, it might be on His terms and his time frame not yours.
 
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KJV15John11

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That's what most women actually say.
Oh, oh! Okay, jrccomputer, don't look them in the eyes and slowly back away. You only have one chance to get out of here alive so think very clearly what your next move is.

By the way, this was clearly something a good husband would NOT say! Just make a note.
 
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jrccomputer

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Oh, oh! Okay, jrccomputer, don't look them in the eyes and slowly back away. You only have one chance to get out of here alive so think very clearly what your next move is.

By the way, this was clearly something a good husband would NOT say! Just make a note.
What should have the response been?? Please enlighten me as a guy...I'm super dumb when it comes to this stuff :)

P.S: I should really just become a monk :p
 
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KJV15John11

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What should have the response been?? Please enlighten me as a guy...I'm super dumb when it comes to this stuff :)

P.S: I should really just become a monk :p
Making statements about "all women" is never good. Your joke about the man in the forest, good, because it only implies. Women making fun of men, good, because it usually is correct and always funny.

It all may seem confusing now, but we all learn eventually. There was a lot of things that I didn't understand about women until I had a daughter of my own. Things became a lot clearer. You'll start to understand why women are talked about the way they are in The Bible. You'll understand why we are directed as men to act a certain way. A woman's heart is a fragile but beautiful thing that requires a man to be strong to protect it, but be gentle when dealing with it.

That's enough for today, young padawan. Go forth and use what you have learned.
 

jrccomputer

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Making statements about "all women" is never good. Your joke about the man in the forest, good, because it only implies. Women making fun of men, good, because it usually is correct and always funny.

It all may seem confusing now, but we all learn eventually. There was a lot of things that I didn't understand about women until I had a daughter of my own. Things became a lot clearer. You'll start to understand why women are talked about the way they are in The Bible. You'll understand why we are directed as men to act a certain way. A woman's heart is a fragile but beautiful thing that requires a man to be strong to protect it, but be gentle when dealing with it.

That's enough for today, young padawan. Go forth and use what you have learned.
I appreciate the adive you give "oh wise one" I take it with great honor :p.

Something else I learned I had been saying wrong for years is....when a woman is saying somethings is difficult or a srruggle or she's me through this or that, never say: "I know how you feel". Got to be honest that's the first thing I would always say.

I have so much to learn, my heart is in the right place, but I'm a rookie. I feel how I did when I was 12 years old, trying to learn C# (computer programing language).
 

jrccomputer

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Studying!! :p

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