Godly, Respectable, Jesus Loving, Heart Changing Men walking in Humility

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People don't have to read my post - Am I trying to be spiteful? no Am I trying to have a hidden agenda? no - you can't please everyone, someone will always be offended by something you say. Am I trying to challenge myself - yes because I had been the depressed, stinking thinking, bipolar, wounded boy that knows nothing - and coming out of that - and wanting to pursue higher, and better and what Christ has - that's it for me. Sure some will take offense, I am sorry - hope it's not conviction instead - I can only do so much
its just that you have to be considerate of others, with each action or post you have to ask yourself how will this affect others? i also am sorry for blowing up on you its just the way you said everything it seemed as if you were talking down these ppl and it infuriates me when ppl pick on the weak and i will stand up for them
 
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its just that you have to be considerate of others, with each action or post you have to ask yourself how will this affect others? i also am sorry for blowing up on you its just the way you said everything it seemed as if you were talking down these ppl and it infuriates me when ppl pick on the weak and i will stand up for them
I am not much of a fan for it either, on here it can be difficult to tell if people are genuine or fake with a little bit of baiting. If someone was weak and had a question - I hope I would remember the stupid stuff I did, and have compassion in a firm way with a guy - just because I know I have a tendency to want to be babied at times.
 

Oncefallen

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I am pretty sure that guy got banned because he wasn't really looking for help
The guy you referenced was banned because he was a user that had already been banned. He admitted to it publicly it the thread he created.

I am cyphercat. I came back because I believed I had a connection with some of the people here.
Cyphercat was a 35 year old male that chose to circumvent a ban and created a fraudulent profile showing himself as a 17 year old male.
 
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I already had a headache, and then I stumbled into this thread..

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NightRevan

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A lot of post about looks, and people boasting in flesh as a sign of false humility. Even boasting in self deprecation as I am fat an ugly,

How about being a Godly Man?

How about being Respectable?

How about Being Pure and making your heart Pure in Jesus Christ?

How about walking in humility where you are humbling yourself?

How about pursing God's Heart for you so that your heart and His heart are together in oneness?

How about getting after, and taking hold of your salvation like a violent man who takes on the Gates of Heaven



How about that instead of asking, am I datable?

How about instead asking what do I want to be for a woman?

How about not conforming to a woman's expectation?

How about making a life for yourself and then have something to offer a woman to come be a part of

How about leading in such a way where we don't have to ask the question - sex before marriage?


Gird up your loin and answer like a man - bear some responsibility - quit crying and do something about it
Hmm, having Jesus as our focus and sole goal is of prime importance, and the above though is the goal of all Christians, single or married, individually and corporately to grow up in Christ in all things. So I do agree yet I think that even putting this as a focus for singles (with the suggestion that it a pathway to marriage) minimizes the point, it may or way not ever lead to marriage, but is is the goal to which we are all called, following Him and seeking His Kingdom supersedes everything else, being willing to bear our cross and live for Him and for our brothers and sisters and for the world in self-sacrificing service and love is to bring the Kingdom, and is the purpose which which He rescues us. We are justified to justify, we are put right with God to be the people who put things to rights and restore what sin has damaged and marred, to be those who build for His Kingdom.

But in saying this, do not dismiss the cries of your brothers and sisters, who are in pain, and hurting, what they often say isn't some fleshy pride but it's the honest cries of their hearts, the Psalmists never held back their feelings before God, nor did they before Jesus. God doesn't want us to have to pretend or lie before our family in God, but rather that we cultivate a community characterised by His love, welcome, truth and restorative justice, and should be a place were we can all be completely honest with what we struggle with, the hurts and issues we face so we can come alongside each other and bear others burdens. We should love one another as He has loved us, and be conduits through which His love, healing and restoration comes. So I would caution against dismissing to lightly the heart-cries of your brethren as just fleshly indulgence but I true cry of the lost and hurting.
 

Fenner

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A lot of post about looks, and people boasting in flesh as a sign of false humility. Even boasting in self deprecation as I am fat an ugly,

How about being a Godly Man?

How about being Respectable?

How about Being Pure and making your heart Pure in Jesus Christ?

How about walking in humility where you are humbling yourself?

How about pursing God's Heart for you so that your heart and His heart are together in oneness?

How about getting after, and taking hold of your salvation like a violent man who takes on the Gates of Heaven



How about that instead of asking, am I datable?

How about instead asking what do I want to be for a woman?

How about not conforming to a woman's expectation?

How about making a life for yourself and then have something to offer a woman to come be a part of

How about leading in such a way where we don't have to ask the question - sex before marriage?


Gird up your loin and answer like a man - bear some responsibility - quit crying and do something about it



This is awesome, thank you.
 

Fenner

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Thecreationtutor ,what you've said makes sense to me and I agree. God Bless.
 

rachelsedge

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I don't really see what the issue is with the OP...seemed fine and encouraging to me.