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If I have something to say to a guy, I like to just say it calmly and rationally, and let it go. I won't nag or repeat myself, even if it's something that really bugs me. And sometimes that one thing, said one time, is/was critical to continuing the relationship.
BUT...it seems like guys don't remember what you said or don't think you really meant what you said if you only say it one time. Then, when things don't work out they seem surprised, even though you clearly explained it...but only once, and they either didn't get it or don't even remember you said it.
Do guys expect us to yell or nag them about things that are important?
Why is that? I don't get it. Help please.
BUT...it seems like guys don't remember what you said or don't think you really meant what you said if you only say it one time. Then, when things don't work out they seem surprised, even though you clearly explained it...but only once, and they either didn't get it or don't even remember you said it.
Do guys expect us to yell or nag them about things that are important?
Why is that? I don't get it. Help please.