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In all seriousness, though, just text/call him to see what's up. Either he'll answer you or he won't, and either way...that'll probably give you your answer.
Then you have people like me who may text you back anywhere from two seconds to two weeks later, depending on what's going on, how I'm feeling, and how important I perceive it is to respond.
For example:
Any Given Person (Family, Friends, Job, GF, Stranger): Hey, I just (insert statement here).
Me: Option 1) Don't respond, because that was a statement, and I feel no need to offer a response.
Option 2) 'Cool.' or 'Nice.' or 'Good for you.' etc
Example 2:
Person: 'Hey, what are you doing right now?'
Me: *insert whatever it is I'm doing when I get the chance to read and respond to the message*
(...because you can't always be on your phone, because it'll either a)get you in trouble b)be illegal/put you and others in danger or c)be extremely rude to the person you are immediately speaking face to face with.)
Person: *either inserts a similar response to example 1 'Cool.'* or *asks you something related to why they wanted to know what you were doing in the first place*
Me: *Respond in kind*
For example:
Any Given Person (Family, Friends, Job, GF, Stranger): Hey, I just (insert statement here).
Me: Option 1) Don't respond, because that was a statement, and I feel no need to offer a response.
Option 2) 'Cool.' or 'Nice.' or 'Good for you.' etc
Example 2:
Person: 'Hey, what are you doing right now?'
Me: *insert whatever it is I'm doing when I get the chance to read and respond to the message*
(...because you can't always be on your phone, because it'll either a)get you in trouble b)be illegal/put you and others in danger or c)be extremely rude to the person you are immediately speaking face to face with.)
Person: *either inserts a similar response to example 1 'Cool.'* or *asks you something related to why they wanted to know what you were doing in the first place*
Me: *Respond in kind*
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A rather pointless rundown of your texting priorities since the thread is about a very specific type of situation. And, as i stated, under this specific type of situation, it's a bad sign. Not sure how you got the impression i was talking about any other sort of situation, or why you would suppose i cared how you prioritized texting.
I didn't assume you cared, and I responded thusly because in this same given situation, someone like me would still operate under the earlier stated scenarios.
I do not believe I'm the only one who feels/operates this way, and was offering that point of view to the conversation. There are times I haven't spoken to a girl in a situation similar to this, and when she actually called me out for it (FE: The text or call I offered she make to find her answer.), I would tell her if I'd been busy, or wasn't into her anymore, etc etc...
I do not believe I'm the only one who feels/operates this way, and was offering that point of view to the conversation. There are times I haven't spoken to a girl in a situation similar to this, and when she actually called me out for it (FE: The text or call I offered she make to find her answer.), I would tell her if I'd been busy, or wasn't into her anymore, etc etc...
It's a matter of opinion.
I enjoy Reece's posts no matter what he talks about, and one of the reasons I enjoy them is because he's very good at communication and shares a lot about who he is through his narrations. Everyone is different, but these are my favorite kinds of posts--those that give you a glimpse into someone's personality, most especially through stories of their everyday life.
He's also always very thoughtful and caring.
Post on, Reece. Post on.
Many of us DO want to read your posts and you're not just talking into thin air. We're listening!
I enjoy Reece's posts no matter what he talks about, and one of the reasons I enjoy them is because he's very good at communication and shares a lot about who he is through his narrations. Everyone is different, but these are my favorite kinds of posts--those that give you a glimpse into someone's personality, most especially through stories of their everyday life.
He's also always very thoughtful and caring.
Post on, Reece. Post on.
Many of us DO want to read your posts and you're not just talking into thin air. We're listening!
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