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SO.... about a month ago I went on a journey through the interwebs. My quest was to satisfy the sudden romance addict in me. I read true love stories(I love the ones that are told by eighty-year-old couples. Oh it makes my heart melt!), watched proposals on the youtube, read articles on dating advice....
And I came across a consistency in the "what guys look for in girls" topic. It wasn't beauty or a sense of humor. It wasn't personality either. It was intelligence.
Statistically out of all the articles and comments from guys that I read, the one thing that they all agreed on was intelligence. ((Deep down I know that guys like girls who are girls))
I'm going to admit that I feel okay on confidence until we reach that trait specifically. I have dyslexia and it caused a lot of problems with math and it effects my speech a bit. I go to a deadbeat community college(there, everyone thinks they're a failure- its thick in the atmosphere), and though I get As and Bs- they aren't rewarding because I feel like I got the dumbed down version of the cookie.
So when I hear about all these guys asking for intelligence in women, not just the silly articles, conversations with actual guys too. I'm sitting here thinking that they want those girls that are quick on their feet, consume math like it was bacon, aren't gullible... and unquestionably smart.
Don't worry though- I'm not sitting in my room crying, "Oh! Woe is me! Now I'll NEVER get a boyfriend!!!"
I'm sure someone is going to fall for me, if its God's will, my own brother described me as a Meg Ryan stock character. Haha!
I guess my big question is- what do guys consider intelligent? If I'm in the range that is what is considered intelligent--- then why is it that guys desire intelligence like its hard to find? I don't think that there are a lot of people that are considerably "dumber" than me. As in, I feel like I'm fairly average at best.
And I came across a consistency in the "what guys look for in girls" topic. It wasn't beauty or a sense of humor. It wasn't personality either. It was intelligence.
Statistically out of all the articles and comments from guys that I read, the one thing that they all agreed on was intelligence. ((Deep down I know that guys like girls who are girls))
I'm going to admit that I feel okay on confidence until we reach that trait specifically. I have dyslexia and it caused a lot of problems with math and it effects my speech a bit. I go to a deadbeat community college(there, everyone thinks they're a failure- its thick in the atmosphere), and though I get As and Bs- they aren't rewarding because I feel like I got the dumbed down version of the cookie.
So when I hear about all these guys asking for intelligence in women, not just the silly articles, conversations with actual guys too. I'm sitting here thinking that they want those girls that are quick on their feet, consume math like it was bacon, aren't gullible... and unquestionably smart.
Don't worry though- I'm not sitting in my room crying, "Oh! Woe is me! Now I'll NEVER get a boyfriend!!!"
I'm sure someone is going to fall for me, if its God's will, my own brother described me as a Meg Ryan stock character. Haha!
I guess my big question is- what do guys consider intelligent? If I'm in the range that is what is considered intelligent--- then why is it that guys desire intelligence like its hard to find? I don't think that there are a lot of people that are considerably "dumber" than me. As in, I feel like I'm fairly average at best.