I don't know Cinder.
She responded to us with a verse about judging God's servants and esteeming one day over another. That was perfect for 90% of the holiday topics. I just disagree about this application of that chosen reference. Once you get to Leviticus you see stern commands against heathen practices. That would include the Druid celebrations. After that, the OT is filled with judgements from God Himself upon His people for that. I don't want anyone here to be judged of God. It's good you all know the Bible and resort to it with me for our answers. I too need reminded at times about many topics.
Very few people intentionally
celebrate how they did in the OT. You don't find people consciously burning incense to pagan deities or participating in rites or anything like that. Not believers at least and even those who many think are nominal (believers) would certainly shy away and likely run full tilt from if they encountered it.
At worst harvest festivals, pumpkin carving, and dressing up slightly echo this but not much beyond that. I do NOT think that is their intention and I do think that's a personal decision.
That said I think that participating in the window dressing for the occult (ghouls, goblins, witches, etc.) doesn't
"avoid the appearance of evil." So it should definitely be cause for consternation to believers that think it's harmless for your children to be cultivating a spirit of fear (Haunted houses, horror films, ghost stories, certain costumes, etc.)
The whole point when I was younger was to push the envelope and be "scary" which I can't fathom promoting as an adult.
Ephesians 5:11-12:
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And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret."
So yeah, there are undertones but I don't think I should be explicit. "Mostly" it's just free candy and costumes.
The churches that respond by trunk-o-treat, festivals, dress up contests and such that keep in mind propriety and offer an alternative to the secular I don't have much of a problem with. I think boundaries should still be considered and sexualized or "scary" costumes prohibited but if someone missed the memo and their child dressed up like a ghost or something I wouldn't eject them from the event necessarily. Anything sexualized sure...that's a whole discussion in itself though.
Providing a safer environment and alternative for teens is also a great idea.
There's definitely a scary side to God which is certainly worth talking about but it doesn't fit this context at all. There are many frightening environments that are natural (think a cave full of mole crickets and house centipedes for example)... Shark cages?
Please bear in mind that some people are going to struggle with being attracted to what's beneath the window dressing of h'ween so be careful with being too cavalier.
I'm willing to talk about it privately if anyone struggles there.
Otherwise...work out your own salvation