Yes, I do have some thoughts on your 'happy' post. IT boils down to this: There are basically two kinds of churches: the Happy/Clappy & the Frozen/Chosen. If the congregation so chooses to praise and lift up the name of JESUS...then you leave happy and refreshed because GOD inhabits the praises of His people. If you choose to sit and let the flow of the service dictate your worship, complete with responding in little sentences, or watching all parts of the service on a big screen, or let the church bulletin dictate the flow of the holy spirit..then, you leave the building at a designated time...then real happiness in your spirit is stiffled and dull.