IMO, single = not married, but even at that it's hard to say that unqualified. I know some people who are not married but going with someone and they take offense if someone calls them single. They say, "I'm not single, I'm attached" or something to that effect. I am single and I find no shame in that. I simply have not found the right person to commit a wedding vow to. I know that if there is a woman out there for me, God will eventually lead me to her. Carry on.....