How do YOU make Someone feel special?
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I guess it depends on the toy! But, caramel might be the way to go.
(for the record, there was no dinner that night. :/ Strait from my house to the colliseum where the event was, then he returned my muddy, beer smelling, hard of hearing self back to my house. So you are already ahead of the curve, even if it is just Micky D's) LOL
(for the record, there was no dinner that night. :/ Strait from my house to the colliseum where the event was, then he returned my muddy, beer smelling, hard of hearing self back to my house. So you are already ahead of the curve, even if it is just Micky D's) LOL
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Apparently my love language is Quality time and Physical touch.
My way of showing people I love whether it be my parents, my best friend or friends is by being a good listener. I have always been quiet and attentive and I usually don't let anything distract me when I am talking to someone. It usually makes them feel special. I also like giving understated compliments. If I have been on a date with someone, I'll usually text them the next day and tell them what a good time I had. I love writing little notes too. I still put small notes in my best friend's purse thanking her for something she did for me or letting her know that I love her. I am terrible at speaking what I feel so written words work for me. I am also very physical, so people get random hugs from me all the time.
If I want to convey my feelings to a new person, I usually give little compliments. Saying "I don't know you very well but, I would like to get to know you more" just seems creepy to me. It might not be creepy. May be it's just my age. I would rather say "You seem like a very interesting person" and I am pretty sure that she will get the hint that you are interested in her.
My way of showing people I love whether it be my parents, my best friend or friends is by being a good listener. I have always been quiet and attentive and I usually don't let anything distract me when I am talking to someone. It usually makes them feel special. I also like giving understated compliments. If I have been on a date with someone, I'll usually text them the next day and tell them what a good time I had. I love writing little notes too. I still put small notes in my best friend's purse thanking her for something she did for me or letting her know that I love her. I am terrible at speaking what I feel so written words work for me. I am also very physical, so people get random hugs from me all the time.
If I want to convey my feelings to a new person, I usually give little compliments. Saying "I don't know you very well but, I would like to get to know you more" just seems creepy to me. It might not be creepy. May be it's just my age. I would rather say "You seem like a very interesting person" and I am pretty sure that she will get the hint that you are interested in her.
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It could be someone you don't know, someone you know but don't really talk to, someone who probably has a handful of preconceived notions about You, perhaps its an internet personality, either way, how do you get their attention?
How do you let someone know that to YOU they are unique in their effect upon you?
I live in pretty cozy Christian culture where everyone is a winner and everything is sacred and everyone is special; therefore nothing is sacred and no one is special. I always struggle HERE in my HOMETOWN to get people to realize just what they mean to me. Everywhere else I've been in the world, I never seem to have this problem.
Is saying something like, "I don't know you very well but, I would like to get to know you more." inappropriate or just filler conversation?
GRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You Ladies (no offense) can be so frustrating.
How do you let someone know that to YOU they are unique in their effect upon you?
I live in pretty cozy Christian culture where everyone is a winner and everything is sacred and everyone is special; therefore nothing is sacred and no one is special. I always struggle HERE in my HOMETOWN to get people to realize just what they mean to me. Everywhere else I've been in the world, I never seem to have this problem.
Is saying something like, "I don't know you very well but, I would like to get to know you more." inappropriate or just filler conversation?
GRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You Ladies (no offense) can be so frustrating.
You guys are fairly frustrating yourselves lol.When I find someone very special, I make it a point to let them know consistently how and why I feel the way I do. Sometimes it's through compliments, or a small home-made gift. It varies and depends on the person, really. It's just incredibly important to me that the people that matter to me know they matter.
And telling someone you'd like to get to know them better isn't inappropriate at all.
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im excited for this peasant princess book, ill be looking up that one! i dont struggle in this area as i have a ridiculous amount of love to give, and continuously show people what they mean to me. my trouble is its rarely been reciprocated. fortunately for me i have a god who loves me unconditionally and appreciates the love i have for him. thats all i need right now. but one day, when im ready god will send me that dude, ready for the supernova of love i have to give. im praying for him in advance! haha
The Peasant Princess is a sermon series by Mark Driscoll from Mars Hill Church in Seattle Washington (if you want to google it and listen to them) They are also available as podcasts too.
There are 10 in all and they are based off the Song of Solomon. (It is truly a series that not only married people or couples can get something out of, but those who are single as well. It is very good. Hope you enjoy it.)
There are 10 in all and they are based off the Song of Solomon. (It is truly a series that not only married people or couples can get something out of, but those who are single as well. It is very good. Hope you enjoy it.)
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Honestly I do not find women frustrating... As soon as i realized i wouldn't figure them out it was no longer frustrating but this is what I do:
Leave notes that you know they will find if you hang out at their house leave a note as you walk out of the door.
Text them just to let them know that your thinking about them and that the thought of them makes you smile.
Ask their opinion directly in group conversations so they know you care what they think.
When they are talking to you when you answer them repeat some of what they said so they know you were really listening.
Remember things they have told you and try to do something special is a special day for them comes up.
BUT REMEMBER: It must ALL be how you feel... ALL OF IT. If you are faking it shows.
Leave notes that you know they will find if you hang out at their house leave a note as you walk out of the door.
Text them just to let them know that your thinking about them and that the thought of them makes you smile.
Ask their opinion directly in group conversations so they know you care what they think.
When they are talking to you when you answer them repeat some of what they said so they know you were really listening.
Remember things they have told you and try to do something special is a special day for them comes up.
BUT REMEMBER: It must ALL be how you feel... ALL OF IT. If you are faking it shows.
