How do YOU make Someone feel special?
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I know someone who is an expert in getting close to top level people. It was not in the right heart but many things she did worked. She laughed very hard at things they said & would repeat it with enthusiasm to others when they were around & get them to say it again. She would learn about everything that interest them. For eg. she would get a lot of information on the singer of a song they loved & they would be enthralled as they listened about details they did not know or join in conversation if they did. She read books they read, watched shows they watched & sometimes told them, well, I really don't like it but you got me interested for just this once - if she truly did not want to devote time to something she really did not like. She found paid attention & told them she really admired this or that, especially if it was an area they were uncomfortable with.
We ended up being the worst of enemies because she was a liar, but if you truly are interested in someone & not out for self, showing interest in things that are important & the little things works. Ask any Bahamian who get those large tips regularly from the tourist.
We ended up being the worst of enemies because she was a liar, but if you truly are interested in someone & not out for self, showing interest in things that are important & the little things works. Ask any Bahamian who get those large tips regularly from the tourist.
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I agree with grace but I wud also say also do the little things that most men think are insignificant. Eg remember her favourite drink/food to exqctlyhow she likes it or he shoe size and learn her study her like a book but try and do it in a natural way (do t be a stalker). But also be yourself, so many couples break up because the were being fake in the begining.
Also when u do things for her execute themto the best of your ability. Eg buying her a top wrap it and make the wrapping paper match the colour/ pattern/ motif. Eg if there's a flower on the top (daisys) get a daisy patterned wrapping paper it shows attention to detail. My mums partner did that for her for her 40th the present was red and orange the card had a red an orange flower on it and the wrapping paper was reddy orange. It all tied together ATTENTION TO DETAIL. Also if u do somethings she likes she is more willing to do things u like and she might find she like them.
Also when u do things for her execute themto the best of your ability. Eg buying her a top wrap it and make the wrapping paper match the colour/ pattern/ motif. Eg if there's a flower on the top (daisys) get a daisy patterned wrapping paper it shows attention to detail. My mums partner did that for her for her 40th the present was red and orange the card had a red an orange flower on it and the wrapping paper was reddy orange. It all tied together ATTENTION TO DETAIL. Also if u do somethings she likes she is more willing to do things u like and she might find she like them.
