Ooooh ok we're getting closer
I like that last line..
nice!!
ok..here is my devil's advocate..
let's just say that guy isn't who God would want you with but you aren't sure cause you don't have a clue
if He has told you no..
and you do that..and the guy picks up on it and then..bam he likes you and you two start something that ultimately
doesn't work?
how do we rectify this??
I have been in so many bad relationships but girl!!
either I am truly unattractive or men are just afraid..
or intimidated..I don't think it's the former because guys at
my work think I must have men hit on me all the time (no.....)
so they DO need a hint I think or at least something!
I have just been so accustomed to let them come to me..
that it's a mind set that I have grown accustomed to..
but I think there is a difference between what you are saying
and chasing men. ..
I think an availability comes in different forms and I want to learn how to seem
more available..not just cause of my girlfriends..
Its almost as if I am wearing a wedding ring.. and I don't
and I don't know how I'm not available because I don't know how I can be
lol
I am starting to sound like I do when I like a guy..NOT making sense
funny that a woman of God my age still has these kinds of issues
lol
your answers are really good.. and I agree I should only do what's comfortable to me..
but maybe if I knew if it were right, I could make it comfortable..
rejection is scary but I want to learn to take that chance..
even if just to MEET and become friends with men , you know? break outta my shell