How important is it for you to date a virgin?

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Boxme

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seoulsearch said:
Boxme:

Do you have any friends or contacts at your church with whom you can talk to about your situation and have them hold you accountable? Have someone check up on you and help you stand on your commitment to doing what God wants for your life.
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I'm in a new area and have not found a church yet, let alone established contacts that I would feel right talking to about this.

grace said:
I support you in taking that stand. I do not think you will ever regret it. :) Respecting her and respecting yourself in your faith will only benefit your relationship......that is a guarantee. Giving in to the temptation...no guarantee.
Best to you both!
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Thank you.

I'm going to see her on Sunday (work and school prevent us from seeing each other before then) so that's when I drop the ball.

I'm not going to lie, I'm really nervous. Hopefully I can look back and laugh at it, but I'm scared. I guess I'm being selfish because she's so special and I don't want to lose her.
 
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Boxme

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I talked to her on the phone. It couldn't wait.

She's happy with me. With the decision.

Thank you, God.
 
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amorelife

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Well I am one and I would like the man I marry to be one too. I think it's something that two married people should share together. But if one of them isn't a virgin and one of them is, isn't it kind of like the one that is is kind of being cheated? They should be able to be that persons first, and that person should be able to be their first also.
 
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WENSPI

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I don't see a problem in this.. she can be a converted christian or someone that have been repented..so i think is more like a personal decision. I wouldn't care about if she's virgin or not.
 
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watangfarmerjoe

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its a bit hard to date a virgin when you have been married before. however the first time around i was a virgin and i am happy that i was if i had my time again i would of married someone who was a virgin as well. but i married a single mum. i must admit it is a lot easier to stay a virgin then to have sex then regret it. i would say let your heart lead you. if people put you down and judge you because you have had sex before marriage all i can say is that he who without sin throw the first stone.
 
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Gojira

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Boxme said:
I have a girlfriend now and we both accept each other, warts and all.

But for a time I was single and not a virgin, and I don't think I'm the only one here.

I'm not proud of it, but I cannot undo it.

Thoughts?
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I'm not sure it makes any difference to me. Frankly, I don't mind a woman who's been with others -- as long as she's not thinking "He's not bad, but... why can't he be like Sergio...?"
 
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