I would like to marry and have a child one day (possibly adopt) however, since getting saved I've discovered that most single people in the church, both men and women, are every bit as focus on worldly stuff as people outside of the church. It's about money, success, appearance, etc.
Now mind you I can see why a woman wouldn't want to marry an unattractive, unemployed troll. I can completely understand why a guy wouldn't want to marry an over bearing, ultra demanding, witch either. However, it seems to me that when searching for a mate, people are seeking the desires of their flesh and ignoring the things of God.
I'll be the first to admit that I'm not going to marry someone that I don't find attractive. However, I'd much rather marry someone who is average looking who has sweet demeanor and heart for God than someone who's really hot who's as dumb as rock and more concerned with getting her hands on my next paycheck than she is praying for me and our family on a regular basis.
Where are the Catherine Booths these days?