How to meet Christian Men

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GaryA

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serious cat is serious.
It's a good thing that I am not serious cat :cool: --- are you serious cat...??? :eek: :confused: :rolleyes: :p

( "Let's see -- how many other smileys can I insert here..." )

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selino13

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I think go to a bible camp would help much :D usually bible camp is divided by age like teen bible camp, adult bible camp etc
 
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kricky517

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My issue I guess is I am way too picky. But after one failed marriage and then a failed engagement that led to having a child, I have good reason. I pop onto dating sites once in a while, but again, I am way too picky, so that hasn't helped much. I have not seen single men at the church I attend. They are all taken, or they are way too young.
I do sit here and wonder if God will ever send me a husband... but I guess I may have to accept that I may be single for the rest of my life.
 
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I don't really know how to meet Christian men. I am a fairly new Christian and most of my friends are "secular". I attend a church but I would guess that the average age of the congregation is about 60+, I consider many of the members friends but with the age gap they it is not an ideal friendship.

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Thanks
Have you mentioned me?

Ha! Ha!

Really! I couldn´t stop myself (this is not my troll)
 
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Dear!

Develope a FRIENDSHIP, first.

The last time I thought that way I married the wrong person (with the wrong man: Me)
 
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The sky is the limit! (Alberta seems to be your boundaries).

I knew a friend who came from Mexico to marry his wife in Venezuela (Now they are in Mexico).

Hoped that serve you! (but read about Rachel, she came to meet (and see) Isaac) That is in the OLD Testament. A messanger gave the message and these two met (and married) without knowing who they personally were (It was a BLIND DATE, by the way)
 
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Wish I had some good advice for you. Aside from switching churches to a younger congregation, going to Christian events, going on Christian dating websites...
Hmm!

That will lead you to confusion:The more fingers you have, the less you know how to play piano... Just read a post of Liamsom. There you´ll get some information on how confusing that cold be...

My advice is FOLLOW JESUS and GOD (or Jesus) could help you find the way (According to your age? Or God´s will? )
 
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I always found dating sites to be a joke. full of scammers they are.
Quite right! (but not all)

Recently I knew a story in a restaurant I was eating. The owner told me one of his friends met a poor woman... Time passsed and she took her "friend" home and he (being rich) saw the way she poorly lived. Within a week, he asked her to come to say he was willing to buy her a cook, a freezer and a couple of things he thought SHE NEEDED...

That woman, being informed, told him she rather like that money to get her breast operated...

Of course, that rich man fled.
 
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Well, my advice is letting God be your matchmaker. Trust Him to lead your husband to you. That doesn't mean you just sit at home and do nothing though. God isn't going to do everything for you; you have to make yourself available for Him to bring the right guy to you.

Basically, make sure you go out in public every so often, and get involved with other people. Get yourself involved with other Christians, or just get involved with other people in general. Keep going to church, go to events, use online dating, etc.

The key, though, is waiting on God's timing. I'm not saying it will take a while, but i'm saying it MAY take a while. Be patient for the right guy to show up. Until the right guy is brought to you, get that intimate relationship with God. That's the most important thing after all.

Hmm!

What kind of perfume that man needs? (Just to hide what´s human´s)
 
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My issue I guess is I am way too picky. But after one failed marriage and then a failed engagement that led to having a child, I have good reason. I pop onto dating sites once in a while, but again, I am way too picky, so that hasn't helped much. I have not seen single men at the church I attend. They are all taken, or they are way too young.
I do sit here and wonder if God will ever send me a husband... but I guess I may have to accept that I may be single for the rest of my life.
Someone gave this to CC, so I share it as taken:

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ContentCanadian

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ok im setting the ball in motion to gain more Christian fellowship and adding depth to my life. Yup I still want a hubby but I am not going to focus on that directly. I'm simply going to get out more.
 
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hahaha!

Here´s another OLD and secular.

I tink I will enjoy you as a friend. Hope you had learned more ABOUY YOU, these few months of 2014.

One think I know, about overeating: It comes from anxiety. I tend to work in my mind, more than with my muscles... Though and old friend invited me to climb the nearest mountain she has in front of her house.

Perhaps I will go! I like walking, talking and climbing (she is a competitive swimmer, by the way)
 
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Geodad

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My comment on this:
There are two sorts of churches: those with no single women and those with no single men. Being a man I obviously only know the former :D yes you can wait. Yes we all want to have a spouse.

Bottom line. I am single and daddy. While being single dad definitely makes finding a potential partner in New Zealand much harder I am still happy as a dad. I love and enjoy my kids and I don't waste too much time thinking about being single. That is all I can do - focus on the good things in life. Not the missing or the bad ones. When I was single before I was a daddy I thought too much about being single. I am happier now.

My ADVICE: Go out. There are too many female single Christians (more than the boys) that spend too much time at home and never go out. As a dad: enjoy the time you have to go out and meet people. You only meet people when you go where people are. Go out for a run, or a hike. Being fit doesn't hurt either (your body is a temple that needs movement and good nutrition, :D ). Pick up a hobby, maybe one with a lot of men in it (like all the things I did). If there are no young single men in your church - make a decision - stay there or go to church somewhere else (in one of these "no single women" churches that the single guys complain about :D there must be quite a few ).
 
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PaulforJesus

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Praise the Lord. I am Paul from India. If it is God's will I'll be your life partner. I am serving the Lord, since 1995, and I need good christian life partner who will faithfully serve God. My email : [...edit...], please contact me. Thanking you.

Honouring you in Jesus Christ,
Paul
 
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