My comment on this:
There are two sorts of churches: those with no single women and those with no single men. Being a man I obviously only know the former
yes you can wait. Yes we all want to have a spouse.
Bottom line. I am single and daddy. While being single dad
definitely makes finding a potential partner in New Zealand much harder I am still happy as a dad. I love and enjoy my kids and I don't waste too much time thinking about being single. That is all I can do - focus on the good things in life. Not the missing or the bad ones. When I was single before I was a daddy I thought too much about being single. I am happier now.
My ADVICE: Go out. There are too many female single Christians (more than the boys) that spend too much time at home and never go out. As a dad:
enjoy the time you have to go out and meet people. You only meet people when you go where people are. Go out for a run, or a hike. Being fit doesn't hurt either (your body is a temple that needs movement and good nutrition,
).
Pick up a hobby, maybe one with a lot of men in it (like all the things I did). If there are no young single men in your church -
make a decision - stay there or go to church somewhere else (in one of these "no single women" churches that the single guys complain about
there must be quite a few ).