I think its weird how a lot of people think a 'good single christian woman' is someone waiting around for a husband who has never previously attracted a man.
when being a christians woman is not that you are born with a desire for marrying at all. And to be a christian, you might have even *gasp* acknowledge that you sinned. What they really mean is by 'good christian single woman' is just someone who might have been raised totally innocent. Be realistic and acknowledge that there is no such thing...actually to be more accurate there are way more 'bad christian women' and they need forgiveness way more than the righteous do!
anyway. I just think that is this case with everyone and most of all ourselves that we have flaws, though we strive to be perfect, none of us are. When people are in love, they usually overlook these flaws, even ignore them cos love forgives, love covers a multitude of sins.