How will you find a wife?

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Agricola

Agricola

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Richie_2uk said:
Well its no wonder why many people are single with all these type of comments. The op asked a simple question and most of the comments were demeaning. One thing you can rely on on cc. are negative, heartless, demeaning comments from this lovely Christian place. LOL If you can't answer a question, then don't answer at all. that way at least you have some dignity. What's wrong with you people? can't you give good advice for once in your Christian life?
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Unfortunately it could be a case that most of people reply have been burned by Christians in relationships. I have never had a relationship with a Christian woman, Never, that is why I have been on my own for nearly 15 years, I was married once to a atheist, which failed after 7 years of marriage, I married her because the 50+ single Christian girls in my age group who I knew and socialised with from my church and other local churches which we regularly met up with, did not want to even give me the time of day. Met my ex wife, we got on superbly, fell in love and married 8 months later.

Now I say I want a Christian wife and will not be unequally yoked, God has showed me a number of suitable females to marry, one in a vision, but she would not even speak to me after that vision, I get the impression God told her as well, as she was yearning to be married to a decent Christian, just a good looking one that fitted the worldly view of an attractive person.

God sent a superb women I got friendly with in a chat room, from America to live within half a mile of my house. I had no idea she was coming here in the months we built up a superb relationship over webcam, but she again exercised her right to free will and although got on superb over chat on internet, we never even saw each other in person when she moved here. With in 8 weeks of arriving, supposed to have lived here for 3 years studying at bible college, she was back in the States. I think that was Gods doing.
 
cinder

cinder

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Richie_2uk said:
Well its no wonder why many people are single with all these type of comments. The op asked a simple question and most of the comments were demeaning. One thing you can rely on on cc. are negative, heartless, demeaning comments from this lovely Christian place. LOL If you can't answer a question, then don't answer at all. that way at least you have some dignity. What's wrong with you people? can't you give good advice for once in your Christian life?
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And the award for most negative and demeaning post in this thread goes to Richie_2uk. Feeling judgmental? This thread didn't even come close to the negative, heartless, demeaning comments that some others have. But there's a new one of these kind of how do I find someone threads almost every week. It gets old after a while. Not to mention that this is a lady posing the question. Since this is a christian site we assume she isn't looking for a wife of her own, but rather getting out a little frustration about being unmarried and feeling like no one is both suitable and interested. And let's keep in mind that she is asking a bunch of singles who by definition have failed to find a permanent spouse (for whatever reason) an providing almost no information about herself to help facilitate any real advice giving.

We have definitely collected a group of people have pretty sarcastic humor. So those of us who are sarcastic feed off of each other and it isn't in malice just our warped brand of humor that is helping us cope with the challenges of singleness. Maybe we should add a disclaimer to the forum, "Beware of rampant sarcasm, enter at your own risk."

If you are so tired of the comments you receive on CC, I wonder why you are still here? And why instead of giving advice to the OP yourself you have used thread space to bash the rest of us? When you point one finger, there are still 3 fingers pointing back at you. And when you show yourself guilty of the same faults you accuse the rest of us of, then most of us will lose respect for you.
 
Liamson

Liamson

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I don't get it. I mean, I really don't understand at all.
 
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MidniteWelder

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Quick Richie !
Put the dress back on so you blend in and maybe you'll be spared. :p
 
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claudine

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How I wish ur experience of finding the right one for you would also be true to me...Up to this time am still praying for that someone to come, he hasn't arrived yet. I am waiting....
 
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