How you treat your same gender means....
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the person who hates their own gender has unresolved issues with someone(s) in their life (or in their history). those issues could even be self-loathing, and lack of acceptance of themselves too.
i would say that it might not make them unsuitable completely as a partner, but will come up again, and should be addressed (or at least understood). i actually think those issues have less bearing on their lives if they are aware of them, the source, and can then compensate, and work on them.
we all have baggage, and issues. and i'm not sure where this falls on the scale of risk or detriment. but i still think we should want partners who are more self aware and eager to address these kinds of things, simply because they will translate into other areas, such as when raising children.
a woman who has issues with other women will possibly raise a daughter, projecting messages that might not be helpful, mistrustful. a father can raise a daughter who might be taught to trust no man, and be skeptical about every guy she meets, etc.
i would say that it might not make them unsuitable completely as a partner, but will come up again, and should be addressed (or at least understood). i actually think those issues have less bearing on their lives if they are aware of them, the source, and can then compensate, and work on them.
we all have baggage, and issues. and i'm not sure where this falls on the scale of risk or detriment. but i still think we should want partners who are more self aware and eager to address these kinds of things, simply because they will translate into other areas, such as when raising children.
a woman who has issues with other women will possibly raise a daughter, projecting messages that might not be helpful, mistrustful. a father can raise a daughter who might be taught to trust no man, and be skeptical about every guy she meets, etc.
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I think if someone has negative feelings toward a gender, whether they are male or female) it's because they've been hurt or disappointed by a lot of people in that gender. I used to feel this way about men because I only seen my dad a couple times growing up, I've been beat up by men, raped, and almost murdered. I used to be scared to death of men- that they are out to harm me or at least break my heart. That is until I met good christian men. Seeing so many old couples in church that are still married and supportive of each other warms my heart. I long for the authority of men who lead in the right way (I know I'm rare) because I've never had that before.
I like that song by the Judds "Grandpa, tell me bout the good ol days"..
"Did lovers really fall in love to stay?
Stand beside each other come what may?
Promise really something people kept?
Not just something they would say and then forget?
Families really bow their heads to pray,
Daddies really never go away.
Woah Grandpa, tell me bout the good ole days!
I like that song by the Judds "Grandpa, tell me bout the good ol days"..
"Did lovers really fall in love to stay?
Stand beside each other come what may?
Promise really something people kept?
Not just something they would say and then forget?
Families really bow their heads to pray,
Daddies really never go away.
Woah Grandpa, tell me bout the good ole days!
I think too many people use the term 'hate' way too loosely. I like to think that more people actually are guilty of such and don't really 'hate' but rather dislike. I think that anyone who dislikes people of the same sex is quite immature and needs to get out more. There must be reasons for such angst and they need to identify and address them. Maybe they look at others as threats? Case by case basis.