I wonder if its like a Cut and Paste thing.
So, you say you like Bacon eh...
do not worry about what you will eat or Drink for THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND!!!
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Anyways... to add to the Post. I think there has to be a shared sort of secret language with Flirting.
BarlyGirl brought up a good point. There is a sort of Covert side to what is really being said.
I can speak for myself in stuff like this but, if a woman is overt or winking at me. That usually leaves me more confused than anything. I think to flirt, is to try and make a connection on a level that is different than normal interaction. I think real flirting, at least for me, has to do with Metaphor, Symbolism and Mutual Understanding.
Which is why I can't just go up to girl and ask her out or for coffee without knowing her (Or flirting with her), because it serves a purpose. Kind of Like Jesus' Parables....
"If they understood...."
Concrete Language with Binary terms, is a sure way to know that I am only attracted to what I see on the outside. If a guy just walks up to a woman and asks her out, without flirting with her or making an effort toward meaningful conversation, he is probably not interested in WHO she is.