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Attacking you isn't the intent, simplymeganne. People are sharing with you from their hearts - from past hurts, from past mistakes, from observations hard won. Those of us who are older hope with all that we are that the good that comes from the failings we've see/made/suffered can be of benefit to those who are just starting out. They are just giving you some things to think about from different perspectives.
You've put a wall up because you've been hurt and don't ever want to be again. That wall won't stay up, but for now it's not such a bad thing. Don't carry your heart on your sleeve, but don't lock it up either.
And, no, becoming a play thing for guys is not fine. And neither is using them knowing full well you don't want a relationship with them.
You need time. You're 17. BE 17. Enjoy it. You won't get another chance at it. I'm NOT trying to be condescending. Truly!
God bless!
You've put a wall up because you've been hurt and don't ever want to be again. That wall won't stay up, but for now it's not such a bad thing. Don't carry your heart on your sleeve, but don't lock it up either.
And, no, becoming a play thing for guys is not fine. And neither is using them knowing full well you don't want a relationship with them.
You need time. You're 17. BE 17. Enjoy it. You won't get another chance at it. I'm NOT trying to be condescending. Truly!
God bless!
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