Husband's former female friend chose to move on

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spunkycat08

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Recently my husband received a Facebook "call" from a former female friend he met in 2011 while the 2 of us were getting to know each-other letting him know that 1) she is moving on with her life, 2) she is moving out of the city where both of us live to go to school, and 3) she had wanted to date him while the 2 of us were in a committed relationship beginning in 2011.

While I am relieved that everything is over, I just wish she would have told him the truth in the very beginning.

That is the main thing I wanted from her.
 
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Fortunately, this woman appears to be moving on with her life. Ask your husband to delete her from his friends list to block further unwanted updates on her personal life and intrusions into your marriage. He should readily agree to do this if he respects your feelings.
 
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spunkycat08 said:
Recently my husband received a Facebook "call" from a former female friend he met in 2011 while the 2 of us were getting to know each-other letting him know that 1) she is moving on with her life, 2) she is moving out of the city where both of us live to go to school, and 3) she had wanted to date him while the 2 of us were in a committed relationship beginning in 2011.

While I am relieved that everything is over, I just wish she would have told him the truth in the very beginning.

That is the main thing I wanted from her.
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I'm guessing that you suspected/ knew that she was keen on him back then and now she's finally come clean with this? I also guess that this was a source of conflict.["...everything is over"] Sometimes we men have a blind spot in these matters. I can't say that I know what the exact circumstances are but judging by your relief this disclosure is a good thing. Now you both can move forward. Tourist's advice is ideal. Wishing Gods best for you both moving forward.
 
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