I don't know what to do

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mystikmind

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butterfly712 said:
yes it is mystikmind I just wish he would stop texting me and playing games.
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I think he is playing games on himself and your the collateral damage!

I also think it is important to ask people about their past relationships when you start dating them - if they are vague on how these past relationships ended, then that is a red flag. Also allot of people like to say "the past is the past", it is true, but not if you use that line as a rug to sweep things under!! The reason i am telling you this, if you are still not sure to take him back, then just ask yourself how well do you know what happened with his past relationships? Is there a pattern of behavior? Is your situation unique?
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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butterfly712 said:
:p LOL yes Gary,he had the nerve to tell me that he hopes that I'm not seeing anyone new.
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He sounds insecure. Maybe he's regretting leaving.

butterfly712 said:
yes,that's what I'm doing but he first asked me if I had a new boyfriend which is none of his business but I didn't tell him that.
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That's good. Spare his feelings and keep your stuff to yourself. I think that was wise.
 
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butterfly712

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Siberian_Khatru said:
He sounds insecure. Maybe he's regretting leaving.


That's good. Spare his feelings and keep your stuff to yourself. I think that was wise.
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Thanks Siberian_Khatru :) I think it was wise also,and he can regret it all he wants to,he's not the one for me.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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butterfly712 said:
Thanks Siberian_Khatru :) I think it was wise also,and he can regret it all he wants to,he's not the one for me.
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God will bring you the one he has for you. Sometimes you need to hoe out the weeds, to find the flowers..lol.. :eek: It was his choice to leave, and IMO he needs to grow up and get more maturity on him.
 
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butterfly712

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blue_ladybug said:
God will bring you the one he has for you. Sometimes you need to hoe out the weeds, to find the flowers..lol.. :eek: It was his choice to leave, and IMO he needs to grow up and get more maturity on him.
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:) yes he does need to Lady Blue,he is very immature,and he even admited to me that he's very immature.
 
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mystikmind

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MultilingualMessenger said:
Woo, red flag. When someone tells you about themselves, believe them :p
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Don't just believe them, understand the long term implications!

After 6 years of marriage, my ex divorced me.... right from the start i was completely honest about who i was and my flaws, and she was in love and gladly accepted me the way i was, but then in the long run, i was not someone who could keep her happy.
 
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