I use to wear a teeny-tiny torture device around my neck. Style?

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Reborn

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What historical proof are you referring to? I know that the cross was used in pagan religions also (as if all the world pre-sensed in an unconscious way the Sacrifice of Christ). I would like historical proof for the claim that the cross was not a christian symbol or didn't bear any christian meaning until Constantine.
If you are looking for any kind of hard evidence, all there is to read, are anything you, yourself, can find in an exhaustive Google search. Same links /with key words : cross, pagan, origins. Posting anything here would take pages for a proper and thorough explanation. Now, of course we are always at the mercy of the people who have recorded history...and if they did it correctly, or if they did not? The same is true for anything we read and believe to be accurate before the invention of our current technology. ( Civil War, George Washington, ....anything before 1900, all are simply passed on --and hopefully well trusted eye-witness accounts?)
(I hope you and I can agree that we can only go off recorded history, and those things entered into books, or computer databases?)

Good luck. If you find anything I might have missed, please share, I know I am always grateful for any correction, or interpretation of the Bible I might have saw wrong. God Bless.
 
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Intense? Some call is passion for truth, live I've said, it's hard to convey tone in notes. And I have a feeling if my thread was something that was basic..it would sound "pleasant". Thanks for your 2 cents my man- I have enough from you to go to CoinStar now. (see-that is a joke) And please take no offense when I offer my 2 cents back. You sir, come off as smug. The bulk of your responses to women are cute, and playful...the ones towards men seem standoffish, and well....smug. Sorry, just MHO. I am cool with it. And since you seem so quick to give your opinion of me (which you have a few times), I thought it's only fair I finally give my opinion of you?

My handful of posts were never meant to offend, and if they did I apologize. Nor are they there seeking attention, I actually had wished for less. If I wanted attention I'd post Threads I know for a fact that would get clicks. (Happy, basic topics) We are grown ups here, people can choose not to click. But instead of people trying to converse with me, they auto-defend their doctrine and attack--I ask for scripture proof (to maybe convince me) to start the convo, and they just ignore.
I have no grudges, nor do I feel as though I get mad (sarcasm is who I am) I simply send my posts into the great tech-void, in the hopes they spark thought and maybe a deeper conversation about the topic. If one agrees, then cool, if one doesn't, then lets have an open conversation about why you think I may be wrong, ....or vice versa from me--with Scripture -not opinion! ( that is, if they feel I am wrong)
I hope with each post that maybe- just maybe, I can find just one person (for my personal chat) that will expand, and/or go private msg on the matter (in which I've been lucky enough ) But with the first handful, I'm just shown people are willing to attack, 90% of the time WITHOUT fully reading the entire thread, and/or my responses. I was under the impression that we are here to talk like Christians and respond like Christians-not attack, when someone'd doctrine slightly differs?. Not ho-humming our responses every time someone gets uncomfortable. Just as the BIble is filled with amazing, loving teachings, it is also filled with very unpleasant things (death, war, Satan, judgment) I don 't know how to put this next line politely, so bare with me: there is always the don't click on my threads option, instead of getting on mine (in which you don't do this) and saying its a waste of time, while wasting your time on my thread just to type it.

And finally my point was simply, WHERE (please, it's my hand out for maybe a reboot in thought) does it say we use an actual cross as a symbol for Him? Scripture? You see, that symbol came from us, (actually the Romans) because it's use everywhere didn't come until AFTER He gave us scripture and long after He went on the cross---- I know no scripture that pushes it use.

See my signature below...I really believe that.

God Bless man, I'm really am sorry that you are thrown off by my posts.
Hi mate.

Yes, I have character flaws. I'm willing to admit that. Am I sometimes to easily, frustrated? Sure. Too reactionary? Sure. But smug? I don't think that's me. I'm not some playboy. Cute and playful to the women, standoffish and smug to the men. It's true I have fewer problems with the women on CC then the men, but that's simply because many (not all) men seem to come to CC with an aggressive attitude, fists raised (or swinging), ready for a fight. I've been betrayed by people on here, called horrible names and more. I've had women sexually harass me via PMs and some men call me a demon. But I've been here awhile, I know the ropes. I get along great with many people here, both men and women. And I've had fun-loving discussions and deep and meaningful discussions with both sexes too. I love God's truth, and I love people's passion for it. I may not always be comfortable with with it, it may challenge me, but sometimes the truth does make us uncomfortable, I acknowledge that to be true. I'm very much a proponent of sharing God's complete nature, not just the puppies and rainbows side. In no way am I offended by you, nor do I dislike you.. I'm just wary of some of your methods in discussing things.

Okay, here's my angle.

Instead of saying, "I used to where a teeny-tiny torture device around my neck?" You could say, "I used to wear a crucifix/cross around my neck" and then you lead into it being a torture device and not a good symbol for Christianity etc. It's the approach that matters with these things. The first makes it sound as if you've already made up your mind and you're hell-bent on proving your point. It's the approach many aggressive atheists take when they want to dispute Christianity. I've seen Christians question such things before and I believe it's good to question these things but I don't believe I've ever seen a Christian refer to the crucifix as a torture device in this context (about symbols/neck chains etc.)

Finally, nowhere in the Bible does it say the cross should be worn as a symbol of Christianity. But I've examined such things and I haven't been convicted of this. Maybe it's a personal conviction of yours. I don't worship the cross, I worship the One who suffered and died on the cross and rose to new life. To me, the empty cross is a reminder of what Jesus went through for us, for the price He paid for us and the fact that it's empty shows He was victorious over sin, death and the Enemy.

Butting heads like this happens, that's the nature of forums. I apologise for my tone at times, that it seems I'm after you. That's not my intention. In the future I'll aim to be more loving. Thank you, brother.
 
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Good luck. If you find anything I might have missed, please share, I know I am always grateful for any correction, or interpretation of the Bible I might have saw wrong. God Bless.
I found that Tertulian (aprox. 160-225 AD) is the first to mention the practice of christians to make the sign of the cross in De Corona,ch. 3 (at the end of the chapter).
 

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Tintin: I've never gotten any PM's like that... now I feel left out. :rolleyes:

Reborn: Remember that thread where you complained that christians didn't like to discuss Christ? Remember I suggested that maybe when you brought up God-related stuff they might see it as argumentative? This whole thread is proving my shot-in-the-dark guess accurate after all. You seem to be intent on proving your point and proving yourself right against all opposition and argument... and frankly you seem to have anticipated argument from the get-go, which is usually a good way to get an argument started.

Why do christians not like discussing Christ? Because when you discuss something they feel they are under attack. Whether you are looking for an argument or whether it's just how you come across, it's a fact.

Hmm... rereading what I typed, it sounds a bit blunt. But I'm going to hit post anyway because maybe blunt will get through.
 
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Tintin: I've never gotten any PM's like that... now I feel left out. :rolleyes:

Reborn: Remember that thread where you complained that christians didn't like to discuss Christ? Remember I suggested that maybe when you brought up God-related stuff they might see it as argumentative? This whole thread is proving my shot-in-the-dark guess accurate after all. You seem to be intent on proving your point and proving yourself right against all opposition and argument... and frankly you seem to have anticipated argument from the get-go, which is usually a good way to get an argument started.

Why do christians not like discussing Christ? Because when you discuss something they feel they are under attack. Whether you are looking for an argument or whether it's just how you come across, it's a fact.

Hmm... rereading what I typed, it sounds a bit blunt. But I'm going to hit post anyway because maybe blunt will get through.
Eh, you really don't want sexually harassing PMs from women. I'm not even sure they were women. They could've been men pretending to be women to create division or to rile people up. Or worse.
 

Lynx

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Yeah I know, I was being facetious. But I was thinking more about the people calling you a demon. I just can't help but wonder what kind of demon they would call me, were they to call me one in PM. That is, if they know what kinds of demons there are and are in a mood to differentiate between different types when they call me one.
 
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Yeah I know, I was being facetious. But I was thinking more about the people calling you a demon. I just can't help but wonder what kind of demon they would call me, were they to call me one in PM. That is, if they know what kinds of demons there are and are in a mood to differentiate between different types when they call me one.
There are a lot of angry people on CC, I've found and a good portion of them are mentally unbalanced (or pretending to be). It's part of the territory. Hmm...
 

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No no no, now you're getting into the "Windmills of your mind" thread. No fair mixing threads. :p
 

Reborn

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Hi mate.

Yes, I have character flaws. I'm willing to admit that. Am I sometimes to easily, frustrated? Sure. Too reactionary? Sure. But smug? I don't think that's me. I'm not some playboy. Cute and playful to the women, standoffish and smug to the men. It's true I have fewer problems with the women on CC then the men, but that's simply because many (not all) men seem to come to CC with an aggressive attitude, fists raised (or swinging), ready for a fight. I've been betrayed by people on here, called horrible names and more. I've had women sexually harass me via PMs and some men call me a demon. But I've been here awhile, I know the ropes. I get along great with many people here, both men and women. And I've had fun-loving discussions and deep and meaningful discussions with both sexes too. I love God's truth, and I love people's passion for it. I may not always be comfortable with with it, it may challenge me, but sometimes the truth does make us uncomfortable, I acknowledge that to be true. I'm very much a proponent of sharing God's complete nature, not just the puppies and rainbows side. In no way am I offended by you, nor do I dislike you.. I'm just wary of some of your methods in discussing things.

Okay, here's my angle.

Instead of saying, "I used to where a teeny-tiny torture device around my neck?" You could say, "I used to wear a crucifix/cross around my neck" and then you lead into it being a torture device and not a good symbol for Christianity etc. It's the approach that matters with these things. The first makes it sound as if you've already made up your mind and you're hell-bent on proving your point. It's the approach many aggressive atheists take when they want to dispute Christianity. I've seen Christians question such things before and I believe it's good to question these things but I don't believe I've ever seen a Christian refer to the crucifix as a torture device in this context (about symbols/neck chains etc.)

Finally, nowhere in the Bible does it say the cross should be worn as a symbol of Christianity. But I've examined such things and I haven't been convicted of this. Maybe it's a personal conviction of yours. I don't worship the cross, I worship the One who suffered and died on the cross and rose to new life. To me, the empty cross is a reminder of what Jesus went through for us, for the price He paid for us and the fact that it's empty shows He was victorious over sin, death and the Enemy.

Butting heads like this happens, that's the nature of forums. I apologise for my tone at times, that it seems I'm after you. That's not my intention. In the future I'll aim to be more loving. Thank you, brother.

All is good my man. I apologize too. The title to my threads are there (and I might be guilty) in the hopes to grab attention from the people on here who want to discuss and enjoy the deeper issues of our walk. I'm aware that many will jump on, and read one or two line and quick-draw their response. I'm a bit wore down on responding to those who haven't take the time to read the entire thread and just judge me. Throughout my thread responses I slowly get to explain why I feel the way I feel on issues, and I wish that people would see that. I post these threads and I feel it's my responsibility to explain, and answer each one, because I am the one who started it. But I now choose who I will take time to respond/explain to, if and only if they really are curious and want to discuss. Life is too short, and I crave peace. I appreciate your honesty, and honestly...I enjoy talking with you Brother. Here's to many future debates, the agreeing, disagreeing, laughing, and crying-until then-- be well!.....God Bless.
 

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Yep I'm going to do this again. Another cinder commentary in color.

And I have a feeling if my thread was something that was basic..it would sound "pleasant" ​I have a feeling you have no clue how to sound pleasant when having a discussion of any substance. Thanks for your 2 cents my man- I have enough from you to go to CoinStar now. (see-that is a joke) No that is a dismissive insult, it's a misuse of humor to use it as a weapon And please take no offense when I offer my 2 cents back. You sir, come off as smug Not half as smug as you do sir, BTW when you put your cursor over that big long green bar under Tintin's name it will tell you that Tintin is very respected as a source of truth. He's got a lot of respect from a lot of people and while he will call people out when they're off base (and has done so to me a time or two) he is quick to apologize when he is too harsh and try to clear up any misunderstandings. If you want to find an example of a humble respectful debater Tintin is a good starting point. Sorry, just MHO. I am cool with it Your opinion is neither humble, nor do I believe that you are cool with it if you felt the need to write all this
My handful of posts were never meant to offend, and if they did I apologize. Nor are they there seeking attention, I actually had wished for less. If I wanted attention I'd post Threads I know for a fact that would get clicks. (Happy, basic topics) No you'd do like every other attention seeker and post controversial topics in the most controversial manner possible with strange titles to make people curious. Oh wait, that's what you did do. We are grown ups here, people can choose not to click. The excuse used by pretty much every rude poster on the internet. But instead of people trying to converse with me, they auto-defend their doctrine and attack That's the pot calling the kettle black--I ask for scripture proof (to maybe convince me) to start the convo, and they just ignore Yet most of your argument has been that the use of the cross is a graven image and you've cited more history of where crosses show up outside of Christianity than scripture to prove your point.

I have no grudges, nor do I feel as though I get mad (sarcasm is who I am) Many of us have perfected the art of sarcasm, you so far seem to have just used it as a cover for your counter attacks and then say I'm not mad I simply send my posts into the great tech-void, in the hopes they spark thought and maybe a deeper conversation about the topic. If one agrees, then cool, if one doesn't, then lets have an open conversation about why you think I may be wrong, ....or vice versa from me--with Scripture -not opinion! ( that is, if they feel I am wrong) But would you ever believe you were wrong?
I hope with each post that maybe- just maybe, I can find just one person (for my personal chat) that will expand, and/or go private msg on the matter (in which I've been lucky enough ) But with the first handful, I'm just shown people are willing to attack, 90% of the time WITHOUT fully reading the entire thread, and/or my responses. I was under the impression that we are here to talk like Christians and respond like Christians-not attack, when someone'd doctrine slightly differs? but you sure don't seem to have any reluctance to get into a fight yourself, maybe you should practice that whole a soft answer turns away wrath bit of Proverbs. Not ho-humming our responses every time someone gets uncomfortable. Just as the BIble is filled with amazing, loving teachings, it is also filled with very unpleasant things (death, war, Satan, judgment) I don 't know how to put this next line politely I'll agree being polite and respectful doesn't seem to be one of your strong suits (can't say it's always one of mine either) , so bare with me: there is always the don't click on my threads option, instead of getting on mine (in which you don't do this) and saying its a waste of time, while wasting your time on my thread just to type it but some stupid crap needs to be repudiated for all the lurkers who will come around and wonder if this is what christianity is all about. And you also had the option not to respond to the responses you didn't like, you are as guilty as any of us.

And finally my point was simply, WHERE (please, it's my hand out for maybe a reboot in thought) does it say we use an actual cross as a symbol for Him? Scripture? Where does it say we cannot or should not? I think the link between the cross and Jesus is much more obvious than a lot of other Christian practices so why fight this one. You see, that symbol came from us, (actually the Romans) because it's use everywhere didn't come until AFTER He gave us scripture and long after He went on the cross---- I know no scripture that pushes it use Wait, you mean that there weren't any Christians sporting crosses before Christ died on one, and there weren't many Christians wearing something as unusual as a cross during the following few centuries where being known to be a Christian could get them killed? You're right that's a complete mystery, I can't understand how that could be.

See my signature below...I really believe that.

God Bless man, I'm really am sorry that you are thrown off by my posts.

I think this best sums it up where did you find this, this is the internet please post links to the source material so we know if this comes from a scholarly site or just some nut in his basement blogging:
There is no evidence that for the first 300 years after Christ’s death, those claiming to be Christians used the cross in worship. According to Wikipedia: A symbol similar to the cross, the staurogram, was used to abbreviate the Greek word for cross in very early New Testament manuscripts such as P66, P45 and P75, almost like a nomina sacra. The cross symbol was already associated with Christians in the 2nd century, as is indicated in the anti-Christian arguments cited in the Octavius[7] of Minucius Felix, chapters IX and XXIX, written at the end of that century or the beginning of the next,[8] and by the fact that by the early 3rd century the cross had become so closely associated with Christ that Clement of Alexandria, who died between 211 and 216, could without fear of ambiguity use the phrase τὸ κυριακὸν σημεῖον (the Lord's sign) to mean the cross, when he repeated the idea, current as early as the apocryphal Epistle of Barnabas, that the number 318 (in Greek numerals, ΤΙΗ) in Genesis 14:14 was interpreted as a foreshadowing (a "type") of the cross (T, an upright with crossbar, standing for 300) and of Jesus (ΙΗ, the first two letter of his name ΙΗΣΟΥΣ, standing for 18),[9] and his contemporary Tertullian could designate the body of Christian believers as crucis religiosi, i.e. "devotees of the Cross".[10] In his book De Corona, written in 204, Tertullian tells how it was already a tradition for Christians to trace repeatedly on their foreheads the sign of the cross.[11] It is important to note that the crucifix, that is a cross upon which an image of Christ is present, is not known to have been used until the 6th century AD.[12] (you can check my copy paste here)

In the fourth century, however, pagan Emperor Constantine became a convert to apostate Christianity who determined his brand of Christianity was apostate and when did they determine that and promoted the cross as its symbol. Whatever Constantine’s motives, the cross had nothing to do with Jesus Christ except for that little part about he was crucified on one. The cross is, in fact, pagan in origin. The New Catholic Encyclopedia admits: “The cross is found in both pre-Christian and non-Christian cultures Wow someone figured out how to cross two pieces of wood at right angles without any Christian influence, must mean that everything we find outside of Christian influence must be pagan and evil.” Various other authorities have linked the cross with nature worship and pagan sex rites.
Why, then, was this pagan symbol promoted? Apparently, to make it easier for pagans to accept “Christianity.” Nevertheless, devotion to any pagan symbol is clearly condemned by the Bible. (2 Corinthians 6:14-18) The Scriptures also forbid all forms of idolatry. (Exodus 20:4, 5; 1 Corinthians 10:14) ​Loosing Occam's razor on this argument: maybe the Christians adopted the symbol of the cross because Jesus died on one and they recognized both the unique significance of his death and how that was the most pivotal and important thing he did in his life. So they adopted the instrument of his death as a remembrance of the price God was willing to pay to rescue them. The cross is mentioned in scripture over and over again, most notably in 1 Cor 1 where Paul talks about fearing the cross of Christ would lose it's power and then in chapter two he says he wouldn't talk about anything except Jesus and him crucified. Sounds like the cross was pretty central to Paul's message so why would anyone think it was a pagan addition.

Failure for anyone (including me) to do proper homework before standing firm on a position, is why most arguments get heated actually, a little thing called PRIDE is usually to blame for most of the nastiness on here, people who aren't willing to listen and can't conceive that they are wrong . I am not a nut or confrontational Oh I would say you are rather confrontational , nor insane for standing by what I believe to be truth, backed by homework and historical fact ​Or at least some opinions you read on the internet. I do not believe one is saved or not saved by doing anything in particular ( wearing a cross) -that was not the push of this thread. It is up to the individual to seek out what may or may not be right Then why have you carried on this debate so long to convince us all of how weird it is to wear a cross?
You might find some more like minded people in the Bible Discussion forum to carry on such conversations with. The tone and attitude in your posts in this thread is likely to get you on most people's ignore lists pretty quickly around here though. We like humble, honest, practical questions and discussions here in the singles forum
 
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Yep I'm going to do this again. Another cinder commentary in color.













You might find some more like minded people in the Bible Discussion forum to carry on such conversations with. The tone and attitude in your posts in this thread is likely to get you on most people's ignore lists pretty quickly around here though. We like humble, honest, practical questions and discussions here in the singles forum

Sorry you feel that way. It's wild you went through that much work to judge and call me out though. Curious to know if you actually read any of it, before you (and so many others) insult? I have had a decent share of people so far, thank me in private. So it's not for everyone I know. So I understand, if you disagree. Be well.
 
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Cinder, thank you, mate. I appreciate your kind words of me, they're very humbling and I'm honoured. That said, Reborn and I have sorted things out via PM, so I think we can let sleeping dogs die, uh... lie (what's the saying?). We're both going to go into this with more love and more patience. I hope we can all do likewise. Thanks, my dear sister.
 

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Sorry you feel that way. It's wild you went through that much work to judge and call me out though. Curious to know if you actually read any of it, before you (and so many others) insult? I have had a decent share of people so far, thank me in private. So it's not for everyone I know. So I understand, if you disagree. Be well.
No, I went through that much work to give you a response to your argument, point out where you were being inconsistent, defend my friend, and straighten out some logical fallacies. None of those points have you answered in your reply. If I just wanted to judge you, I wouldn't have bothered reading anything and would have just called you a few names. But an interesting derail of this thread would be when does disagreement or taking apart someone's argument become a personal attack and judgement. I'm willing to let most anyone have a bad day or a bad post or a topic they feel passionate about and tend to be a bit dogmatic on so I'll reserve forming a definite opinion until we se a bit more of how you interact in the forums (or chat).

Cinder, thank you, mate. I appreciate your kind words of me, they're very humbling and I'm honoured. That said, Reborn and I have sorted things out via PM, so I think we can let sleeping dogs die, uh... lie (what's the saying?). We're both going to go into this with more love and more patience. I hope we can all do likewise. Thanks, my dear sister.
Glad you guys got it sorted out. And I will agree that the more love and patience we all show on this site the better it will be.
 
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No, I went through that much work to give you a response to your argument, point out where you were being inconsistent, defend my friend, and straighten out some logical fallacies. None of those points have you answered in your reply. If I just wanted to judge you, I wouldn't have bothered reading anything and would have just called you a few names. But an interesting derail of this thread would be when does disagreement or taking apart someone's argument become a personal attack and judgement. I'm willing to let most anyone have a bad day or a bad post or a topic they feel passionate about and tend to be a bit dogmatic on so I'll reserve forming a definite opinion until we se a bit more of how you interact in the forums (or chat).



Glad you guys got it sorted out. And I will agree that the more love and patience we all show on this site the better it will be.
Wow. Speechless. I will sidestep your name my Dear. Take care of yourself.
 
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Sorry you feel that way. It's wild you went through that much work to judge and call me out though. Curious to know if you actually read any of it, before you (and so many others) insult? I have had a decent share of people so far, thank me in private. So it's not for everyone I know. So I understand, if you disagree. Be well.
Funny you brag about being so open, and when someone takes the time to go bit by bit through your posts and respond you criticize them for judging. Then question if she's even read. Really? Did YOU read HER response? Oh... i know what picture to post here...

 

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Getting back to the OP, just weighing in that I wear a cross. I do it as a conversation starter. If someone says something about my cross, I tell them about Jesus.

Pretty simple opening line for evangelism, isn't it?

Oh, and I really do know that it stands for Jesus death, for which I am grateful every moment of my life. I am also grateful that Jesus death paid for my sins, and his resurrection heralds the power of God triumphing over death! Face it, although many died on crosses, Jesus is the only one who was raised from the dead and sits at the right hand of the Father. And that is what the cross reminds ME of!

PS. If you want to discuss this in the BDF, I will give you lots of references and maybe even the Greek exegetics on some of these passages if you need it. You seem to be parroting the words of bitter men, who are using a bunch of internet lies to discredit the cross of Christ. Sorry if I am being a bit vehement, but you seem to have the same tone in all your posts, and it is getting a bit tiresome, esp. when I come here to get away from this very kind of discussion.
 

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Getting back to the OP, just weighing in that I wear a cross. I do it as a conversation starter. If someone says something about my cross, I tell them about Jesus.

Pretty simple opening line for evangelism, isn't it?

Oh, and I really do know that it stands for Jesus death, for which I am grateful every moment of my life. I am also grateful that Jesus death paid for my sins, and his resurrection heralds the power of God triumphing over death! Face it, although many died on crosses, Jesus is the only one who was raised from the dead and sits at the right hand of the Father. And that is what the cross reminds ME of!

PS. If you want to discuss this in the BDF, I will give you lots of references and maybe even the Greek exegetics on some of these passages if you need it. You seem to be parroting the words of bitter men, who are using a bunch of internet lies to discredit the cross of Christ. Sorry if I am being a bit vehement, but you seem to have the same tone in all your posts, and it is getting a bit tiresome, esp. when I come here to get away from this very kind of discussion.
I don't wear jewelry.
I just use my one giant eyeball as a conversation starter.

Isn't it beautiful how God made us all different?
Some of us benefit from jewelry, and some of us don't.

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Huh? My guess, it's okay to assume and call everyone a troll that I disagree with? Isn't that name calling? Do we run in packs on here?....sort of a tough Christian gang thing? You know, I knew guys way back then, who use to punch people, and jump into fights for their friends without knowing both sides of the story. These poor victims would get pounced on, not caring that their friend actually started it all in the first place. They resorted to be unpleasant, instead of talking it out. Everyone would watch, not wanting to help in fear of getting hit or mocked too. Sad stuff.
I do not cause harm by just expressing my opinions...so why talk trash at all?
 

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I get your point. On one hand, a cross isn't even that special: many people were killed that way back in those times. It wasn't like Jesus was the only one.

The difference is that Jesus did it for US, and it wasn't just the physical torture, it was the spiritual torture as well, even more so. The weight of sin, the weight of everything that comes with sin, the weight of God turning His back on His son, pouring out His wrath on him...we cannot fathom it. Not even a little. I think of how guilty/burdened I feel after ONE sin, and He bore the entire sin of mankind. That right there is just...crushing. So, I think the cross, as mentioned before, is a reminder of that. To remind us of the beauty of what He did. He didn't go through all that because He had to. This is GOD we're talking about. He could have dropped them all with a breath. He WANTED to. Because He loves us. So no, I don't think it's evil.

I do get what you're saying, though. My friend, who is very squeamish with blood, asked me one time, "Ugh, why do all these worship songs and hymns have to sing about His blood? It's just gross." And it's true. If we sang about ANYONE else's blood, we'd think it was disgusting, morbid, etc. But it's the meaning behind it.
Well said. Thanks for chiming in. What's wild is that I have had 20 plus people private msg me agreeing, disagreeing, or just wanting to talk about it a little more. They want to express their feelings on the thread, but decide not too, in the fear that they will get torn apart by the TCG's (as well call them) on here, if they do. It's sad that years after HS, they still feel like they can't share how they feel, (with other Christians no less) because the cool kids might attack them for expressing an opinion. BTW, some of these people/PM's have liked other posts from others who are bashing me?! ??? Oh well, we can try.
 
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#60
I hope I haven't liked any posts that 'bash' you. The Like thing isn't an exact science, nor is the way we use it. Sometimes we agree with part of a post and Like it, other times we agree with the whole post and Like it. I suppose a better course of action with the former example would be to explain that in a following post.

I think we all need to check our actions, tone, words, and motives at the door before proceeding any further. I don't want us to have to resort to holding hands and having to sing Kumbayah, but if that's what it takes! :p