If you were my wife

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DuchessAimee

DuchessAimee

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AmmiAmmiel said:
Ever consider that your method of correction was in error? Coming from someone who's been in Stephens shoes many times, I understand how difficult it is to explain yourself to some people, others (like me) instantly understand. I've been in his EXACT position in this thread, and I can lend support to his angered responses. No ones comments to him were genuine, sincere, kind or considerate. I don't care what he may have said or done in the past, if someone is sincere in their question they deserve a sincere response. And as Christians it is our duty to respond in loving kindness regardless of what wrong we may feel, intentional or unintentional. Only love and truth is able to correct someone. How would you feel if you asked a simple question like he did and got ridiculed for it rather than receiving the understanding you hoped for?
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You aren't understanding who Stephen was. He was a troll. He was just here to cause trouble. He ridiculed me, Seoulsearch, called Arwen a HORRIBLE name. He was corrected in love. And then he was removed when he revealed who he really was. He had no intention of changing, and the questions he asked, arguments he gave, and things he claimed Christ to be were unbiblical. No one deserves to be abused, and Stilly decided it was time for Stephen to go bye bye. I understand you feel compassion for the guy, and that's your business, but you are misguided in chastising me. You don't have all the facts, and it's a shame you won't take my word for what happened. Especially when you can verify what I've said by doing a little homework.
 
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AmmiAmmiel

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Tintin said:
Not true. Most people's comments were all of these.
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Put yourself in his shoes then say that honestly,..
If it were so, how come I feel the opposite?
 
DuchessAimee

DuchessAimee

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AmmiAmmiel said:
Put yourself in his shoes then say that honestly,..
If it were so, how come I feel the opposite?
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Oh... I see. I didn't realize all truth was bound to how you feel. I guess I didn't get the memo.
 
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AmmiAmmiel

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DuchessAimee said:
You aren't understanding who Stephen was. He was a troll. He was just here to cause trouble. He ridiculed me, Seoulsearch, called Arwen a HORRIBLE name. He was corrected in love. And then he was removed when he revealed who he really was. He had no intention of changing, and the questions he asked, arguments he gave, and things he claimed Christ to be were unbiblical. No one deserves to be abused, and Stilly decided it was time for Stephen to go bye bye. I understand you feel compassion for the guy, and that's your business, but you are misguided in chastising me. You don't have all the facts, and it's a shame you won't take my word for what happened. Especially when you can verify what I've said by doing a little homework.
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Ok, look. I may not understand your experience with him fully, but I know that the words exchanged here were unfruitful in every way. I wish that The Lord would bless me with the opportunity to witness to him. I have a way with understanding things that most so-called believers do not. And I'm not directly chastising you per se. It's towards anyone who has incorrectly cast judgement on him.
 
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AmmiAmmiel

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DuchessAimee said:
Oh... I see. I didn't realize all truth was bound to how you feel. I guess I didn't get the memo.
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Why such hostility? I speak from experience in dealing with these kind of situations. Have you ever been on the opposite side of the spectrum?
 
DuchessAimee

DuchessAimee

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AmmiAmmiel said:
Ok, look. I may not understand your experience with him fully, but I know that the words exchanged here were unfruitful in every way. I wish that The Lord would bless me with the opportunity to witness to him. I have a way with understanding things that most so-called believers do not. And I'm not directly chastising you per se. It's towards anyone who has incorrectly cast judgement on him.
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You're missing the point. And the Lord has given you the opportunity to witness him. You can go back over his threads. However, you seem bound and determined to view this the way you want to while ignoring evidence. Have it your way. This conversation I'm having with you is, as you put it, fruitless.
 
DuchessAimee

DuchessAimee

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AmmiAmmiel said:
Why such hostility? I speak from experience in dealing with these kind of situations. Have you ever been on the opposite side of the spectrum?
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I'm frustrated because you're ignoring the evidence. See my previous post.
 
CatHerder

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The dead horse has been beaten.
The troll has been banned.
Can we let this thread die already?
 
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arwen83

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Can we put this thread to rest? Stephen caused enough havoc in the forum when he was around. If you disagree with what was mentioned in the interaction with stephen when he was here, that is fine. It is your right to disagree. Now that he is gone, there is no healthy life-given reason to continue speaking of him.

I for one will no longer read and post on here, and I would hope that others follow suit. There is no good that can come out of what is already a turbulent thread.
 
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AmmiAmmiel

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Ok Arwen you're right,. There is no life giving discussion to be had with people who do not wish to understand. All I wanted from this was for people to understand how difficult it is for a man like him to get the help he needs. You have to desire that help first in order to understand how to give it,..

A wise man once said: "nobody care how's much you know until they first know how much you care".

With that I bid you all goodnight.
 
Nautilus

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im sad i wasnt around to counter troll the troll
 
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salgirl

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I don't know what prs means... let me know? Did what I said bother you? Maybe catch you later...I am praying for you!
 
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salgirl

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I am sorry to hear of the circumstance arwen - although I don't understand it completely - I couldn't I wasn't around - but I went off of cc for 7 months because this guy I thought I was in love with basically threw me out like the trash... now that I am back, I am enjoying many NEW friends.... I certainly hope you can do the same... you are in my prayers
 
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valerie

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he is already banned.
now let's close this thing, shall we? :)
 
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relientkchick_4

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he was banned :)
 
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emgcynurse2005

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it's not a woman's job to make your life easier or happy, you get married to glorify God, and because He is calling you to be with that person. if your expectation is that she will do this for you you are going to probably be disappointed. she will do things you dont like, say things you dont like and probably drive you crazy at times and you will do the same to her probably. but God will have a person and you have to learn to deny yourself and love her in spite of it all. sorry if this sounds harsh, dont mean it to, i'm just trying to save you some pain.
 
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Ugly

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arwen83 said:
I hate that word :( Worst one of them all. Just cus I called him out.
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You should write about it and post it in our group. :D (not the word, how you feel 0.0 )
 
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Ugly

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emgcynurse2005 said:
it's not a woman's job to make your life easier or happy, you get married to glorify God, and because He is calling you to be with that person. if your expectation is that she will do this for you you are going to probably be disappointed. she will do things you dont like, say things you dont like and probably drive you crazy at times and you will do the same to her probably. but God will have a person and you have to learn to deny yourself and love her in spite of it all. sorry if this sounds harsh, dont mean it to, i'm just trying to save you some pain.
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Erm. i encourage you to read, or at least skim through, the posts before you respond. The person that created this thread was banned very shortly after. He was banned before the first page got filled with comments. It was discussed in other posts repeatedly, about his being banned. Even the post right above yours said it. And it says it under the posters name that they are banned. :rolleyes:
 
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MidniteWelder

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meggars said:
But MOM!! I wanna play with it. *pokes it with a stick*
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Reminds me of the first time I saw a porcupine and started walking up to it, as my dad sat back and said
Yeah why don't ya go kick it in the butt while ur at it.

Or the time I asked to go swimming in a tidepool that was filled with sea urchins
And he said, yeah go ahead

You just keep pokin with that stick and see what happens :D
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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Ugly said:
Erm. i encourage you to read, or at least skim through, the posts before you respond. The person that created this thread was banned very shortly after. He was banned before the first page got filled with comments. It was discussed in other posts repeatedly, about his being banned. Even the post right above yours said it. And it says it under the posters name that they are banned. :rolleyes:
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Ugly..you don't really expect someone to read through an entire thread before they post what they have to say do you?? Sheesh. LOL
 
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